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I usually based who should pay on how the date went - if it is going well I hope he pays and if it is not I usually pay for myself. If the date is not going well and he pays for dinner I feel like I owe him something later (ie. sex etc.) which is not something I want.
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Yeah when a woman gets nervous that I always pay. Thinking maybe that I would think she'd owe me "something" when in reality I just enjoy her company and if I'm taking someone out to dinner I want that person to not worry about money.
Yeah, I've had multiple dates with horrible women. If she can't even fake kindness and interest for the duration of a date, she can kiss my hairy ass. I had one girl throw her drink at me, but I dodged it and she doused the chick in the booth behind me (who also made a snotty comment about my refusal to pay for the monster I was there with). I handed the waitress plenty to cover my tab plus a generous tip, and I apologized for the rude cunt I shared the table with. Then I skidaddled. One of the best nights of my life, actually. That was the first time I acknowledged my own value in the presence of a woman, and it didn't hurt a bit. Plus I saw a great movie by myself later that night.