Why do lots of guys try to get in my pants?

I feel like this is kind of sad. My ex was after sex only although he said that he really liked me. Then this guy in the mall asked for my number and then I received a text from him asking for sex. Also, an ex classmate reached out to me on Instagram asking to do something ‘’intimate’’. Then I see all these girls getting boyfriends and I don’t understand how. I don’t dress slutty and don’t use hookup apps and never flirt first.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Sex is normal. Animals court other animals to have sex, reproduce, and continue the circle of life. If you’re ever courted by anyone of the opposite gender, then sex is the motivator at the base level. Relationships develop around sex and turn into a much more complex companionship if things work out. Without sex, you’re either single or you think you’re not single and are caught in some unhealthy protracted courting dance. No sex equals no pair bonding. If you’re not interested in sex, then you have no business dating anyone.

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  • Well, to be fair, even guys that are dedicated, loyal boyfriends want to get into their gf's pants.

    Don't just wait for guys to talk to you- Approach the ones you like and are comfortable with.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • It is quite simple. So many girls have sex with a guy WAY too early. It has become the norm that guys expect sex, even before a proper date.

    Unknown guy goes up to a girl, in the street.

    "Can we have sex?" (NOTE: It is not can we make love!)

    "OK!"

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What Guys Said 14

  • This is normal. To all my girlfriends her exes and ex classmates did send messages asking if they are up to have sex with them so my girlfriends either closed social account or announced that they are in a relationship so those desperate guys could fuck off. And when we broke up they again asked... It is hilarious. I mean I guess that it is not so funny to you.

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  • Men have just become super thirsty and desperate and watch too much porn and take internet comments giving advice to them on how to get a girl and they answer by saying tell her to have sex with you or do some sexual act to you as soon as you first start talking too them. Men have lost touch with reality now a days and as one them I will apologise for them. I'm sorry

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  • Because guys are fucking stupid and think they'll get sex if they just ask for it directly and they think every girl in the universe would just give them sex for no apparent reason.

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  • They find you attractive and it just seems to be physical attraction.

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  • Try flirting first but not heavy with some one you have something in common with.

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  • because you are probably sexy and have nice titties and a super pussy

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  • Try flirting with guys you actually want to date. The guys hitting on you are just pick-up artists.

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  • What have you got besides your body?

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    • What do you have, apart from a small dick? Certainly not very much!

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    • I am bringing something you will never understand. You seem devoid of any feelings. Material things mean nothing because I have something much better. Again, you will never understand it.

  • Date older guys

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  • You must exude some sex vibes, some women just do.

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  • you sound 13

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  • Because there's sweet stuff down there.

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  • You're just attracting "bad" guys

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  • Pants parties are fun

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What Girls Said 4

  • Apparently, those are the bad ones, look for someone who likes you for your personality^^
    Also, not all men are like that.

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  • Because guys get led by their knobs.

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  • I have experienced kind of the same. Random guys approach me wanting sex. I don´t dress slutty. Whenever I post a photo of myself on social media, I get a lot of flirty comments from guys, some even suggesting sex. What really is causing it? I too would like to know.

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    • I will try to give you answer, You are cute, gorgeous, fair white skin, Taller in height, easy to go for guys, live in sex free society, not picky, etc

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    • If you dont mind can you follow my profile, i want to talk with you. as a friend. lol

    • Dont worry I am a decent guy, I won't enter in your pants as I dont live in US. Lol

  • You’re normal believe me, don’t listen or do anything you don’t want to. I hate when some men are driven by sexual things. Don’t do anything because they ask you to.

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