Hi guys, I friggin LOVE this website. OK question: I like kissing and making out with guys, I'm a late bloomer and I feel I deserve alllll kisses I want :p ..but I don't really want to go through conversations or getting to know each other. I want to be on a dance floor, spot a hottie and just rock his world and for him to rock mine. I want to shut up and make out! Now.. how do I do this? There was once a guy he wanted me badly and I just walked up to him when the party was over and said: I want to kiss you, can I? He said YEA and we did and it was perfect! He was so excited about it afterward. It gave me a lot of confidence and a lust for kissing. Then, I tried the same thing with other guys and some would instantly stand back and say: Uhmm no. Some would use an excuse, kinda have a girlfriend blabla, others would just say No. I'm a go getter though, I need to know how to make out with them, without losing face. Getting dissed is NOT cool.. so not cool. By the way, telling me that I should just wait and let the guy come over is not good advice. Some of you guys will be into me all night and show it, but never really approach me. Meh. thanks!
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First off... Alcohol helps. It's a social lubricant and people are more likely to not be taken back by the idea. Guys who have girlfriends (ESPECIALLY if they're around said club somewhere) will get in trouble... and it's a good way to get in a fight. My advice is stick to trying this out on people who you might half-way know. Friends of friends. That kind of thing. Random guys out there in the world are just going to be hit or miss. Asking works sometimes, sometimes you should just go for it. I would bet a lot of it would be all "feel" or "vibe". If he's dancing with you and really digging it, just rock his world. If he's eyeing you from across the room, strike up a little conversation, ask him if you noticed correctly, then ask him your favorite question.2