I am not sure what is wrong with me, but I have this "thing"
where I feel like I am being a pain if I text a guy first. And it's not that I do it all the time or everyday, but I have this impression that I (not all girls, just me) will seem needy or annoying if I ask a guy to hang out or if I text him first. (Someone once told me that if you call a guy/text a guy first, you are chasing him and girls are not supposed to chase men)
Am I being ridiculous? Is it okay for me to text you every now and then(without feeling terrible that I did). Or ask you to hang out?
Most Helpful Girl
I feel the same way, but I've learned that a guy will let you know if you're being a pain...usually by being short with you or not answering your text until forever later or at all. My current guy will always text back hello beautiful or ask me a question which let's me know he wants to talk. Most guys aren't very good with the whole phone/ texting thing. Taking initiative helps with that at little and shows them your confident.0