Guys, Would you ask out a plus size girl?

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  • Its all relative. I've had a plus sized girlfriend and she was an amazing person, I've also had a size zero girlfriend who was nice, people are people not everything revolves around their size.

    And yes i do like girls who are not stick thin models, but i also respect girls who put tbe effort in to go to the gym and take care of themselves.

    I go to the gym try to eat well and take care of myself.

    Although its not fair to say a plus sized girl doesn't take care of herself either.

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  • Who cares about the size of the girl, as long as she is healthy, good natured, and has all of the right parts.

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  • Depends on the magnitude of the "plus!"

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  • Define "plus size". By definition, "plus size" means up to size 14.
    THIS WOMAN is size 14:

    Guys, Would you ask out a plus size girl?

    I wouldn't have much problem asking her out. It wouldn't be the first thing I do though. Naturally I am more attracted to smaller girls, so I wouldn't necessarily put effort into asking her out if there were other women I fancied more. I wouldn't mind going out with her, but I am not sure I would make the first step myself. Maybe on an online dating size.

    Also, in my experience, larger girls don't get any less meaner with their bodyfat percentage growing - they can be just as bitchy and stuck up. So I have this feeling that when you don't even make an effort to look better (yes, I just said it, being overweight ISN'T healthy), you shouldn't have too high expectations yourself.

    Anyway, point is, I find her attractive. Of course it comes down to face shape, body shape, clothing, personality, etc...

    The one thing I want to point out is that plus size doesn't mean what the fat acceptance movement wants you to believe. Size 22 is not "plus size", that's called fat. Probably obese. And I don't want to make plans with an impending heart attack in mind.

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  • Absolutely I would. For looks and for personality. If we had a connection between us, she would not be ANY less worthy of my attention than a woman of any other body type. And just to expand on the question: if our relationship got serious enough, I would even marry her. Love is love, not a dress size.

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  • Depending on the case, plus size may be very feminine and hot. But if you mean this
    Then NO.

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    • That's beyond plus size in my opinion to me that's more like unhealthy diabetes wait

  • My girlfriend is a little bigger then she should but our personalities matched that perfect i cannot even believe that and she got super long black hair ( i love it ) and a cute face ( also love it )
    Yes i did ask her out and we are together 4 months
    She said to me once she did not believe i would date her (tinder match)
    She even didn't believe i would text her after first date but i did after 4 hours of the date :)

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  • I find Pretty faced women in all sizes
    I hope or look at women with the face , eyes, lips , nails, last but not least I like a body in proportion to itself. Move with ease interao with what's around her. Boom! I'm done. . Sold.

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  • It has to be character. Looks change over time, and an accident can change everything in a heartbeat. Personality changes depending on your company, but an individual's character always shows through.

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  • I like my women thick, mainly because they generally have bigger breasts and a nice round ass.

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  • Depends on how plus sized and maybe just for a pump and dump.

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  • Why the fuck did you feel the need to segregate yeses and nos? What are you, 12, for fuck's sake?
    If I'm interested in a woman it's ALWAYS a combination of looks and personality. This is true for most men everywhere. Even those who choose predominantly on one or the other are extremely unlikely to choose ENTIRELY based on one or the other. Your "poll" leaves no room for combinations which are much more natural.

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  • Size has nothing to do with kindness, personality and heck a lot of people think they are plus size but actualy just an average woman. It is celebrity culture and the media that tells all women how they have to look to be beautiful. But my new girlfriend is fine the way she is.

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  • What is "plus size"? And where is her fat stored? First of all, I don't want to exclude anyone as I have no idea who I'll end up being attracted to in the future, but if I just base it on my general preference, I wouldn't care if she had more fat on her lower body.

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  • No I wouldn't. I dated a plus size girl once and she was overly insecure overly confident at the same time. She constantly talked about the guys hitting on her and tried to make my life hell and I got rid of her. She was a self centered narcissistic b**** from the gapes of hell.

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  • I wouldn't because I am on the slim fit side and I would like the person that I am with to be able to catch up with me and be as flexible and dexterous as I am. Also, being as slim (healthy) as your body type can allow, without overtraining, shows that you love yourself enough to take care of what maintains you experiencing life to the maximum level and that is attractive as fuck.

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  • Fucking a whale is on my bucket list. Not something I would enjoy, but something to add to my sexual resume. Besides, fucking a whale, would be equivalent to doing something philanthropic if you get my drift.

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  • It really depends. I've met various women who were overweight/obese. I've met overweight women who were disgusting and gross.

    I also went out with an overweight vet tech before. She was like 5'6 and weighed like 180. However, not only was she very dedicated to getting into shape, but she carried the weight well and was still pretty attractive. The fact she had a personality that turned me on a LOT helped too, and that she maximized her current looks.

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  • yes. it would depend on looks and personality and it she couldn't be excessively overweight (most likely). but some extra weight is not necessarily a turn off at all

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  • Personally, it you look okay, I say why not. As long as you are talking like thirty to fifty pounds above the average or athletic female. But if you look like your bursting at seams and the skin is distorted, no. Sorry, but it's just not what I would call, Appealing. I like a fit girl personally. And it's nothing against you big girls, let's just be friends.

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  • Physical attributes are icing on the cake. The REAL substance to a woman are far deeper and much more difficult to see than mere "eye candy".

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  • It depends. I lead a really healthy, active lifestyle. If she is in process towards getting healthy, then yes. If she doesn't care about being healthy, then no. I'd be her friend, but a relationship with a lazy person would not work for me.

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  • It depends heavily on everything else. I like a girl who takes care of her body. I like to know she can manage her own life and world successfully before I stick myself in her life and stir everything up. If she's bigger, there's something that causes it. Be it stress, health, bad discipline... She's gonna have to have a hell of a personality to equalize it out.

    I have my own faults, some minor, a couple major. I recognize and acknowledge them, then work around them. If she can do the same, good. We're on the same page. If she can't, well then I doubt I'm compatible with her.

    I tend to like two physical looks too. The first is super slim and lean and fit where her sensuality comes from her health and readiness to get... Physical.

    The other is more voluptuous. Curvy hips and softer flesh. But not grossly overweight. There's a fine line between what is sexy in a bit of excess, and what is unattractive.

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  • yeah, for personality. Weight can be lost if you get the motivation to go to the gym

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  • Maybe. Depends on her personality. I dated a BBW once. I found I couldnt penetrate her because her vulva was fat too. Like I couldnt get inside. And I'm average size. Oh well.

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    • Plus she smelled really bad. Tried talking to her about that. No guy wants to stick his thing inside a can of rotten tuna.

  • It depends. I do find curvy women attractive. Women that are a little thicker and have some curves. But I like healthy looking women... not fat women, just women that are relatively fit or healthy but just naturally have a more curvy shape.

    Plus size? It would just depend on how plus she were... if it looked unhealthy with clear areas of fat or if she were just fit but a little thicker and curvier.

    I'm sure there are many I'd go crazy over but also a lot I'd not have a romantic interest in.

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  • No, I would not date someone outside of ideal height.
    It takes no real effort to manage your weight so I personally do not accept any valid excuse for someone to not be of ideal weight.

    If the excuse is "well, I like brownies and I don't really care if eating them makes me a little fat", good for them.
    But I personally find that kind of attitude very unattractive and I believe it is rooted in a lack of discipline and the ability to delay gratification, that will rear its ugly head in all the other areas of that person's life.

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  • see the thing is, if you are plus size, it's because you don't eath healty or don't exercise or both

    i dont mind the plus size. i do mind the laziness

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  • I would advice you to just fix yourself real nice and smell really well. Yeah some guys would ask a bigger set girl but I'd still advice you to hit the gym and improve your physique

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  • I generally prefer women who are overweight, on average. Not obese or unmanagably unhealthy, but overweight.

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  • Plus size is very vague, their is "plus" size women who look average sized, their are "plus" size women who are thick but I would not consider fat, "plus" size that are a bit chubby but its part of their natural build so it can still look very good and then their is "plus" size women who are what is colloquially known as "land whales". So it depends on your definition of plus size. That said I actually like thicker women and I don't mind chubby (especially when they have a cute face it can actually compliment their body really well (as weird as that may sound), but if they are so large that fat is hanging off of their body and they look like they are going to eat themselves to death? No.

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  • No. Women are evil nowadays who try to put men on child support so doesn’t matter if your plus sized or not your all evil inside.

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