oh crap, I have a problem :(
last night I met my friend's brother and his friends.
i like her brother but I never thought he could like me.
last night he said some stuff that sounded like he's somewhat interested. but then his friend starts "hitting" on me (he said I'm the most beautiful woman he's ever seen and that he want something serious with me and a lot of blabla) he's never seen me before.
now I did know her brother a bit before, and he asked for my number (its almostlike we're friends though0. so I felt like I had to give his friend my number too, even though he really isn't my type (not just physically!) and I usualy only give my number when I'm interested.
he was always worrying about me not liking him ("i bet you think I'm a creep now", "i know I'm not super handsome" etc.) I didn't wanna be mean, so I told him it's not him, it's just that I'm not looking for love or anything with men right now. he said he doesn't understand (partly because I was dancing with other guys) and kept hitting on me. now he's already texted me today (we met only yesterday!).
i don't know what to do. I don't want him or my friend's bro to think I'm a mean, superficial person but at the same time don't want that guy to think I'm interested :(
do I text him back? if so, what?
and he told her I'm the love of his life. she just said he's being superficial, that he doesn't know me and all that. but he said that's bs...
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Hmmm, an interesting situation. I think you can actually kill two birds with one stone on this one.
Want my advice? Talk to the girls brother about how you don't like his friend and want his advice on how to go about it. 1. The guy you like (friends brother) is going to relay this info back to his friend in private, I can almost guarantee that. 2. you are going to spark up a conversation with the guy you are interested in. This is going to allow you to drops hints that you are available and looking at the very least (maybe even drop hints you like him too).
Although it may seem a little nerve racking to do, I think you should talk to your friends brother about how you aren't interested in his friend, and you need his advice on how to break it to him. You'll get to stress how much you don't want to hurt this guys feelings. You'll make it clear you do want a relationship but not with his friend. You'll basically be accomplishing everything you could possibly want to accomplish by doing this.
Good luck in whatever you choose to do.2