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Hello insecure girlfriend here and once insecure boyfriend
Insecurity can be tough.
First, how long have you guys been dating?
Start by communicating with him.
What makes him worry? If I read correctly, he’s afraid of losing you.
So what do you do?
First of all, it’s somehing you both should work on. So it’s not just your job to kinda help him, he should be helping himself too!
You can start out by looking at him in the eyes and telling him why you like/love about him and why you’re with him. It tells him why he’s good enough and that’s wny he’s insecure
Second make sure to be open with him! Don’t hide stuff. Be patient cause it takes time. Compliment him etc. and lastly, encourage him to get a hobby lol xD tell him to try stuff but also to not worry
I was insecure at some point.. I basically recognize that I feel scared. I’m scared to lose my boyfriend, not because I don’t think I can’t live without him (I can) but because I love him to death and he’s just an amazing person so I don’t want him to leave my life.
I usually tell him, which I didn’t know it could possibly damage us till today but it can help if your partner becomes understanding. I try to remind myself that he hasn’t hid anything from me since the first time I caught him, he listens to me s when I’m down, he encourages me in what I do, and spends time with me. He’s open with me and doesn’t do anything that’s shady
If you hide stuff, it can only give reason to it. When my boyfriend felt insecure about me at first, I was open to him, meaning I never hid messages that my guy friends sent. I always told him about who they are and I telll him if I’m gonna hang out with a guy one on one. At some point he did the same. From there wee became transparent with one another and there’s a mutual trust