I think that’s a bit excessive what she’s saying. We aren’t sleeping together or anything. But she said when things go wrong to not tell her even if get raped.
We talked about it. We are going out a couple more times then he will come over. His roommates each have small kids and they have an agreement that a new person has to be in a serious relationship first before coming over. I get that. But he knows I will not be sleeping with him until we are serious.
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Honestly I don't think it matters that much when it comes to who goes to who's house. You have same chance of being raped in both situations. What your friend is saying is excessive.
If a girl invites me over to hers I am going to think she wants to be physically intimate. So, if you aren't sleeping together he's going to think you want to based on the cooking date.
Really it's up to you on the idea of when, and it's possible to have a dinner date and not have sex. Your friend saying that bit about rape is way too far. Yes it is excessive what she's saying. I do think it all sounds perfectly rational what your reasons are, but the friend has a point in terms of just having a think about what inviting a guy over and if you're ready.
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