This really frustrates me big time because I’m a guy that is looking for a relationship that could turn serious and for someone who could be a potential wife. I don’t see or believe there's ANY other reason to pursue another person.
It’s very disturbing to me how so many attractive women are seemingly only interested in this numbers game, casual, disposable fling sort of mentality and situation. Today’s women are highly disappointing, and here’s the truth, they ought to NOT want the good guys out there feeling this way about them, because what happens when she’s hit the wall, or has pooped another man’s kid out, and suddenly wants “something serious?” Yeah, no thanks.
It’s such a massive disappointment how our values as a society are so compromised and backwards. I’m nearly 30 years old, and none of these women are even looking to settle down. I’d look to date younger, but they’re even worse. And I’m not a deadbeat type of guy at all, I have a stable job, a good salary, I’m just wanting to meet a good girl and do the relationship thing the right way, but its like women these days don’t even want that.
Most Helpful Girl
it's not all girls.
but many girls are very independent and they don't want or feel the need to have a boyfriend/partner at the moment (for various reasons unique to each girl). it's possible that they've had bad relationships in the past where the guy was controlling... it's possible that they don't know what they want so they don't want to hold a guy back in something serious... it's possible that they know they could have any guy so they're not going to settle on just one... it's possible they feel the need to say "only looking for something casual" bc they think it is what guys want to hear... there could be a bunch of other reasons. but this is not every girl.
Most Helpful Guys
Dude if you start dating girls 35 and up you will have the pick of the litter.
After 35 many women get "Rabies." Ring + Babies = Rabies. This is when girls want to start a family and they start getting desperate to get married and have children before they hit 40 and can't. When I was 35 and hanging out with friends in their mid thirties, I have never been to so many weddings in my life and with a lot of in vitro twin and triplets. Chill, get laid for five years and soon girls will go crazy wanting to date and get married. The sad part is they are now willing to date down to feel like their partner won't find someone better and leave them. Big advice... get a prenup. These rushed marriages often end up in divorce and you end up paying for kids you rarely see. If a girl is willing to sign a prenup, she is in it for you and not just your assets and sperm. So you will have LOTS of women to date, sadly who wouldn't date you earlier, you just have to be careful choosing "the one."
Don't rush... just spend your time improving yourself as you age into the sweet spot of 35-40. Plus if you chill now there is a good chance you will meet and marry a good girl early.
Because young women are too busy working or educating themselves to have a boyfriend. Girls also have sexual needs and quite frankly, they want to basically satisfy their sexual needs by using guys and treating like disposable sex toys... whilst having the time to be able to party a lot as well as work or better themselves financially. Hope that explains it for you.
Quick bit of advice: if you’re a guy, you’re gonna get hurt by girls these days. I’m sort of a Feminist, so all power to them, but girls hurt guys 24/7 you just gotta accept it.