Why do I eventually lose interest in all the guys I date? (Page 2)

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And no, I haven’t been in a relationship since I broke up with my first boyfriend months ago.  It’s been flings. But I find I don’t like the guys later as much as I thought I did in the beginning. I may also start pulling away. One thing I have is trust issues and I’m scared to open up fully to a guy and become attached.  I’ve managed to “succeed” in certain instances by not putting my all into some guy such that I don’t make myself fully available to a certain guy. For instance, two dudes I dated were single dads (note that they didn’t tell me they had a kid but only after we met.. but I was still willing to kinda give them a chance and still see them). Later they would bade farewell and say they were going back to their exes to so-called mend their relationship—and say they’d have to stop talking to me. Times like that I’m really glad I hadn’t committed my attention fully to them and was talking to other guys. Because it doesn’t affect me as much emotionally. It’s like I build this wall to not get hurt. But it also makes me feel lonely because I do want to find The One.

jamie2018 · Answer

Because you probably get board to quickly 😁 try new things and have flings with who u like ! You only live once

weaverman · Answer

You will eventually meet the right person, you are young there is no rush

outside_Toronto · Answer

Because you keep dating the same kinda guys

Exterminatore · Answer

Because you know you got them and once you know that you’re not into them anymore.

TheAceholeSupreme666 · Answer

Dating is about learning. Learning about yourself, and about others. It's an interesting way to learn about human nature.

Anonymous · Answer

You're not really interested in them to begin with, and/or not the right guys for you. Maybe you just like the attention?

btswshubham · Answer

Girls r the same too... i have been dumped twice just because they got richer and more handsome guy than me. Now i am single and i dont have any hope left.

SilverRain92 · Answer

Maybe you like girls? 🤔

57nicpau · Answer

Sorry, can't help you. I have the exact same problem.

Guanfei · Answer

Because you didn't find anyone as interesting as your ex.

Anonymous · Answer

Because all you Asians like is white skin guys.. Gets tiring after a while. White skin obsession doesn't last a lifetime

sidzyyy · Answer

Cause they make u feel gross..

Anonymous · Answer

You haven’t met a guy who has been a challenge to YOU yet.

Sienna-Rose · Answer

Because they’re not the right ones for you

lofii · Answer

it's because you're a sociopath

ivanhunterjo · Answer

maybe you don't like long-term relationships

Anonymous · Answer

Because guys are hoes and liars. It sad really.

Anonymous · Answer

You're a pornstarlet made for bukkake.

hellacray · Answer

Sounds like bad luck

vald9inches · Answer

Sex!

Why do I eventually lose interest in all the guys I date? (Page 2)

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