Is having coffee together a date?

If a guy friend (someone you know like from school or work) invites you to have coffee with him, do you consider that a date? Do you think he is interested in you?

  • Yes, it's a date; he's probably interested.
    Vote A
  • No, it's just a casual interaction between friends.
    Vote B
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Most Helpful Girl

  • If it's like a trip to starbucks where you are in and out pretty quick I would go with no. However, if you sit down and talk over a cup of coffee, I would lean more towards yes.


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What Girls Said 0

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What Guys Said 1

  • Depends on how long you go for and if you talk. What you can say before getting coffee is "I am looking forward to seeing you Friday". When do you hear your friend ever say that? I think that comment makes it more obvious that its a date.