Who has the highest disadvantage in dating?

I believe fat women do over anyone. Do you have an opinion or ranking of who has the highest disadvantage?

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  • I think short guys are at a much bigger disadvantage than overweight women.

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    • And every study ever done on the subject bears that out.

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    • Aww! I think some short guys are cute!

    • How tall are you KezHarris

  • That is so stupid, fat women have a way easier time dating than even fat men do. Lots of men, including tall, good-looking men, prefer a bigger woman, some even prefer obese women, it's a relatively common fetish.

    How common is it for women of any size or shape to have a "fat guy" fetish? An anonymous sex survey of ONLY plus-sized women found that even THEY don't find plus-sized men attractive. Nobody does.

    Who has the highest disadvantage in dating?

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    • Coming from a 290 pound woman, fat women have it the hardest. I’ve seen many fat men in relationships.

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    • I've seen women twice your size who are very successful porn stars and models, so don't give me that crap.

      The reason you can't find love might not be because of your weight, believe it or not. I see way more fat women in relationships than fat men, and I see fat women with fit men all the time, I never see fit women with fat men, unless the guy is a multi-multi millionaire.

    • However I will say my personal situation was anecdotal, but I've seen far more fat women in relationships than fat men, just from what was obvious. My coworker is more of a twig than me and is with a BBW.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Shy people -because it generally takes time for shy people to feel comfortable and open up to someone, and a lot of people don't give themselves enough time to get to know them

    Unintelligent people - a lot of people say that lack of intelligence is a deal-breaker for them

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  • There are men who like bigger women. I'd say overweight short men probably have it the hardest when it comes to dating.

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    • What do you mean by bigger women?

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    • Those guys must be desperate. Fat people are disgusting, and if you like fat people, you’re disgusting too.

    • @RaceAgainstMachine well that's a bold statement. I personally wouldn't date someone overweight myself, but I wouldn't call every single man who was attracted to them desperate.

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  • I think men and women both have disadvantages but I'd say that less average men have the biggest, not fat women. The trouble for women is finding a guy who is interested but also attractive and not just looking for sex, the trouble for less average men is finding any woman at all who is interested.

    Some guys did an experiment with pof. A little cruel but they photoshopped a fat girl's picture, gave her a pig nose and hair on her chest. Here's one of the pictures:

    Who has the highest disadvantage in dating?

    Here was her inbox after a few hours:

    Who has the highest disadvantage in dating?Who has the highest disadvantage in dating?

    Here are the kinds of messages she got:

    Who has the highest disadvantage in dating?Who has the highest disadvantage in dating?

    Not to be cocky but I'm a lot better looking than she is and I was on pof. I had to do all kinds of things to even get replies back to my messages, never mind women messaging me first. Men generally have to talk their way into things, be interesting, funny etc. Women get attention simply because they're women, because a lot of men are thirsty also - most likely because they're not very good at chatting up women.

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  • Definitely not women that are overweight. If anything, its a trend now a days that overweight women are the norm, even if its just for lust. Fact is, they`re still being desired.

    I would have to say short guys. Especially a short guy that`s overweight.

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  • Short men.
    You will see guys occasionally going for tall or overweight women.

    But an extremely large portion of woman on this website won't date guys who are shorter than them.

    Unless the guy has lots of money short guys really aren't preferred by women.

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  • Nope, socially awkward and shy men. No matter how fat the woman their will be a man out their who will have sex with them (I couldn't tell you why but that is not that uncommon of a fetish), but a socially awkward/shy man will never get a date because no woman will ask a man out meaning that if the guy is to paralyzed with fear or lack of confidence no matter how attractive or successful he is he will be alone forever (more then likely).

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  • I don't agree with that. because i've been attracted to women 100lbs. more than a women that was 100lbs. less (no i'm not a chubby chaser). I think someone women just wear weight differently. some women put on weight and they just get curvier while others just get fat (belly).

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  • Desperate guys still go for the larger women or guys who are into that. Most stats I've seen is shorter balding men. Women tend to have high judgment towards a man's hairline and his height which are two things that he can't help. The usual follow up are African American women if I remember correctly but I would need to be fact checked on that and know not why they land in the higher levels of dating disadvantees

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  • Fat men and it's not even close. Fat women will get angry if a fat guy even tries to talk to them. I've had women that weigh more than me at 5'3" (I'm 6'5) tell me how they should have to settle for an overweight guy while, at the same time, cry about how the men are shallow because they don't want a 300lb woman.

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  • The ones who don't want to change what's truly wrong with them. Thinking habits, eating habits, doing illegal shit that causes harm to themself or another person. How tf are you supposed to find anyone if you don't change yourself for the better?

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  • The disabled.

    But seriously? A fat women at least has boobs that can be used as an asset. A fat guy has boobs but that's seen as gross (and rightly so). Only difference is that as the guy he has to approach but the fat women will still get hit on.

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    • The disabled? Really. You go too far, and you're wrong. I'm disabled. I'm legally blind, and bad scoliosis, cataracts too. I'm short and fat. I can play a mean guitar, , I'm smart, and I am told a good sense of humour. Women respond to confidence, not arrogance. If you are lugging around a big chip on your shoulder about your lot in life, everyone but you can see it. This is a huge red flag to anyone within 500 feet. Matter of fact, I got hit on by 2 different women today. Neither strike my fancy, and I was gracious and polite in turning them down. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't flattered, but I knew it wasn't for me.

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    • @TheAceholeSupreme666 just because it's politically incorrect to suggest a minority group such as the disabled struggles in dating doesn't mean it's not true. I dated a girl with cerebral palsy and her lack of dating opportunities was evident in her desperation.

      I'm not having a dig at the disabled, just stating fact. Confidence helps sure, but people these days want the perfect match and sadly disabilities aren't easily hidden to show those people's otherwise great values so they get passed up.

    • Ok, I will grant you that. Valid point.

  • Biggest disadvantages
    Men:
    Asian men. South and east
    Short
    Small dick
    Hairy
    No car
    Narrow shoulders

    Women:
    Black women
    Tall
    Over weight
    Curvy with a huge belly
    No boobs
    No ass
    No hips

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  • Men have it worse than women in general. A woman can be overweight and still be called curvy and sexy. If a man is overweight they aren't even considered, especially with online dating.

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  • Nowadays... Physical attributes are more valued over emotional and mental capacity. On this day and age where a person can change their entire body with cash, I believe if people look at what's inside, they would be better off.

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  • Fat men, short men, and broke men all have it harder than fat women. If a man is short, fat and broke he may as well be the source of the black plague as far as women are concerned.

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  • If that were the case, why are fat women fat? There is something they can do about that other than to complain about it. The real answer is men, men have the highest disadvantage in dating. Women all they have to go is wait until a man asked them.

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  • God no fat women have it much easier than a short man.

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    • Loool no way

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    • so no one really dates them and also I don’t care about height that much as long as you are taller than me and I can wear heels with you and I’m still taller. I’m 5'5.

    • I prefer bigger women and I am not fat, I am white. And even still you said that a lot of black guys like fat white girls, now which group of women like men under 5'5"

  • A lot of people who are very unattractive only have a disadvantage because they are unwilling to accept someone who is also very unattractive.

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  • Fat women don't have it worse than quadruple amputees, I think.

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  • Short men who are balding in there early 20's. Men who also suffer from asperger's (autism spectrum) like me who don't get social cues and can come off as weird.

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  • I'd say blind mute trans hermaphrodite amputee burn victims with leprosy have the greatest disadvantage in dating.

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  • Fat women are the grotesque lowest level one can have in the dating sexual market value rating. They end up having to date the "omega", a form of male below a beta.

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  • People with physical, mental and unsolvable problems who can't solve his situation.
    I think that in that level of awareness there is no difference between genres.

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  • Short men and very tall women. You can lose weight, you can't get an additional growth spurt

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    • How short and how tall are we talking here?

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    • But it would be 9+ inches removed from the average girl

    • Ahhh I see where I messed up, that does make more sense

  • Guys who are socially awkward have it worse because most women won't consider approaching a guy who has low self esteem.

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  • Black people. We hate other black people but keep having kids out of wedlock. I wish blacks would admit that we need each other and form communities.

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  • A fat woman can always get a black guy... i think its ugly fat dudes who have it the worst. . a girl can always find someone willing to ride them... not so much with janky ass dudes

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  • It really depends. Insecure short men think it’s them and insecure tall or ugly women think it’s them too. It’s literally impossible to calculate. It is especially impossible when you add in personality, character, and other attributes as well. You may like how a person looks but that doesn’t tell you how they will be with you when living together. Even for hookups, character and personality are assessed. So, I think insecure people tend to skew this question with their biases and self deprecation. If you’re a tall woman, men would probably fetishize you, but wouldn’t want to approach you for a variety of reasons. Some men would. If you’re a balding man, you could have nice eyes and a nice overall face which makes your balding a non issue. It’s literally impossible. Insecure people saturate their opinions on this question from what I've seen.

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  • I would think people with physical disabilities might have the hardest time finding a partner.

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  • I am Pretty sure a fat women can suck a dick or get fucked a lot easier than a fat dood... Women always have the advantage.

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  • Girls in generally. They never know for sure what the boy really thinks likes or is interested about them

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  • It is not fat women from what I have seen. It is ugly to average looking guys with no money that are rejected the most.

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  • Fat women still have a fan club. I'd say it's either women who are freakishly tall, or men who are short and fat.

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  • Opinion Owner thank you for your genuine answer. RaceAgainstMachine is an idiot😡😡😡😡. Don't listen to what they have to say

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  • Fat women do catch a ration of shit, but fat guys and shorter men catch plenty too.

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    • As a fat guy, I am inclined to disagree.

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    • Wait... Did I misread that? I think I meant to say "agree."

    • @Edanurus Well, certainly many bigger gals, bigger guys, and shorter guys end up in perfectly happy relationships, so it's not universal that people hate these physical attributes enough to reject someone for dating.

      But some people do get rejected for these reasons, and you also note that very skinny guys catch some heat too.

      There are a lot of ways people shun others for how they look and whatever moral failing they believe is accompanied by the way one looks.

      But I have noticed that a lot of these prejudices tend to lose traction when people hit the 25-30 year old mark. People start looking for the deeper qualities that make someone a good partner, and worry less about superficial things that don't really make much difference.

      We will all age, most will gain weight over time, and we'll get wrinkles, saggy skin and squishier butts, but love transcends that, if you're doing it right.

  • Ugly people with no interests who don't socialise. They can t get someone through having a cool personality and they can't get someone through their looks.

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  • Fat people can lose weight do it doesn’t teally count.

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    • + their are definitely guys who prefer fat women. I think it is some fetish.

  • If overweight women are at a disadvantage, how come i see a lot of really attractive guys dating overweight girls?
    To be honest, a lot of them get asked out more than i do!
    (And im happy for them!)

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  • People with disabilities especially if they're shy.

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  • Short guys, definitely. You can always work out or eat better to lose some weight, but guys literally can't do anything if they're short :(

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  • Being an introvert with very little social life.

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  • Fat, ugly and socially awkward.

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  • I think dark skin women do

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  • Hobos

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  • Men who are unnattractive for whatever reason.

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  • This is so mean...

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  • Darkskin women.

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    • Haha. Not true

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    • The ideology that the man should be taller is a, social construct. The same social construct that women should be thin.

    • *still be shorter than him

  • Probably fat men, honestly.

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  • Obese short poor people

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  • I do

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  • I think handsome guys married ugly girls

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  • Definitely fat men.

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    • Definitely not 🤩

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    • There's a weird fetish for anything, no matter how disgusting. So you can't really say fat men aren't at a disatvantage

    • I don't know depends on where you live

  • Asian men and black women.

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    • That a big generalisation especiallyyyy for black women. Average to pretty black women have it good.

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    • @cavmanier yet finances are the leading cause for divorce.
      I doubt how uneducated and unemployed people living on food stamps could make it to financial stability.

    • @BlackMaleYou

      I'm just saying statistically it helps a lot. Where I live a home costs about 1 million dollars. Single people rarely own them. The market is driven up by dual incomes.

  • Unattractive women... Even if they have a good body or personality, only fat guys will be interested in them

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  • People who travel a lot such as myself. I struggle so much to maintain a serious relationship :(

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  • Females

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  • Fat, tall women and fat, short guys are about equally disadvantaged.

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    • How tall and how short are we talking here?

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    • Where did you hear guys want girls 5’5 and shorter? 5’4 is the average height for a girl. They say 5’6 is ideal.

    • It’s usually the tall guys that want short girls. Short guys usually like tall girls.

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