It means, you're not getting any younger, and she wants something serious, most likely. Remember, as we age, we start to lose our ability to reproduce, which is what people are supposed to do, right? RIGHTTTT? So, as we age we start to lose that ability, women go through "the change", etc.. so, she's likely like, hey, i want kids already. Not trying to be like "hey, go start trying to have kids" but, that's what she's likely thinking, at this point
Could be. She also might just want to understand her boundaries and such. Usually a girl has feelings when she asks this and is possibly feeling a little disorented in regards to what she can do if you haven't defind your relationship yet.
Reply to your update: Just be straight with her. She wants to know if she's wasting her time or not. Have you had sex? Are you seeing other people too?
Its an easy one. Does she have a boyfriend? No? Then tell her: "i like you. Like a lot. I want something serious with you and i wish you would be my girlfriend"
If she says "Yes". Well, congrats. If she says "No" then fuck it - move on.
That is the phrase you are looking for as a man if she is the woman you want as your girlfriend. That is her way of letting you know "Hey, dummy, I want you to be mine and me to be yours."
Have never found a necessity to get that question in my mind, I don’t like to be around men with whom I wonder, who I am for them or what we are for each other.
Are you trolling because anytime a girl asks "what are we to each other" she wants to know your feeling and intentions. No sex yet, huh? That could be good, as in he has not pushed for sex yet with the 3 date rule. Or bad, as in why have we not had sex yet? I think your taking it slow is the best option as you really want to know a person well before you commit to anything. Too many jump in with both feet and wind up sinking to the bottom.
Exactly I need to know her well before I commit. Maybe 7 weeks is a long time apparently but we don't get to see each other often. so I guess it's taking a bit of time to really get to know each other.
It only can be considered long if one or both of you think so. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks. People rush into marriage quickly without any long engagements and wind up divorced just as fast.
I think she is trying to establish a foundation to make decisions on. Just friends so she can date others. Serious so she should close the gate. More than serious to it is a dedicated relationship. Simply put where are we?
She's anxious and she wants security, and the fact that she is asking you means she is interested in taking it further. If you don't answer yes, she will be okay with it for awhile, but her emotions are going to slip and she's gonna wanna break up.
I mean, not necessarily. She's most likely confused and a bit curious on what the two of you are considering you've been dating for 7 weeks, which is a while.
Either she wants to be with you, or she is feeling out where you are in the journey of your relationship. Girls generally know if they want to Pursue a guy or don’t after the first meeting. We think of so many steps ahead. She just wants to know where you are.
In my experience, they’ve only asked me if they are wanting to, if she didn’t want one, she’d either just let things happen or make sure you knew she didn’t
Could be she wants to define the relationship and know whether to continue or not. I hate it when a girl asks such question without providing any info as to what she's thinking.
This is a typical question from women. They are all same in the world. İn every country girls use the same arguments. Like feminists use have the same argument in every country and hate men.
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It means, you're not getting any younger, and she wants something serious, most likely. Remember, as we age, we start to lose our ability to reproduce, which is what people are supposed to do, right? RIGHTTTT? So, as we age we start to lose that ability, women go through "the change", etc.. so, she's likely like, hey, i want kids already. Not trying to be like "hey, go start trying to have kids" but, that's what she's likely thinking, at this point
Could be. She also might just want to understand her boundaries and such. Usually a girl has feelings when she asks this and is possibly feeling a little disorented in regards to what she can do if you haven't defind your relationship yet.
Reply to your update:
Just be straight with her. She wants to know if she's wasting her time or not. Have you had sex? Are you seeing other people too?
Its an easy one. Does she have a boyfriend? No? Then tell her: "i like you. Like a lot. I want something serious with you and i wish you would be my girlfriend"
If she says "Yes". Well, congrats. If she says "No" then fuck it - move on.
That is the phrase you are looking for as a man if she is the woman you want as your girlfriend. That is her way of letting you know "Hey, dummy, I want you to be mine and me to be yours."
Have never asked that to a man…
Have never found a necessity to get that question in my mind, I don’t like to be around men with whom I wonder, who I am for them or what we are for each other.
I mean, if I am somehow by his side, it means I know pretty well what we are. Then why would I be with him? I don’t know.
She wants to know if you are friends with benefits because that is all you seem to want off her.
Your talking about Me?
Boy, you really are new to this dating thing.
But friends with benefits have sex and we haven't even had sex yet
Are you trolling because anytime a girl asks "what are we to each other" she wants to know your feeling and intentions. No sex yet, huh? That could be good, as in he has not pushed for sex yet with the 3 date rule. Or bad, as in why have we not had sex yet? I think your taking it slow is the best option as you really want to know a person well before you commit to anything. Too many jump in with both feet and wind up sinking to the bottom.
Exactly I need to know her well before I commit. Maybe 7 weeks is a long time apparently but we don't get to see each other often. so I guess it's taking a bit of time to really get to know each other.
It only can be considered long if one or both of you think so. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks. People rush into marriage quickly without any long engagements and wind up divorced just as fast.
I would recommend asking her what the comment means to her (as it might mean different things to different people). 😊
I think she is trying to establish a foundation to make decisions on. Just friends so she can date others. Serious so she should close the gate. More than serious to it is a dedicated relationship. Simply put where are we?
She's anxious and she wants security, and the fact that she is asking you means she is interested in taking it further. If you don't answer yes, she will be okay with it for awhile, but her emotions are going to slip and she's gonna wanna break up.
I mean, not necessarily. She's most likely confused and a bit curious on what the two of you are considering you've been dating for 7 weeks, which is a while.
She most likely does. 7 weeks are a pretty long time to make up your mind so the answer shouldn't be too hard for you to define
She wants to know where you stand. She also wants a serious relationship and is hoping you want the same, but she truly just wants to know.
Either she wants to be with you, or she is feeling out where you are in the journey of your relationship. Girls generally know if they want to Pursue a guy or don’t after the first meeting. We think of so many steps ahead. She just wants to know where you are.
In my experience, they’ve only asked me if they are wanting to, if she didn’t want one, she’d either just let things happen or make sure you knew she didn’t
Could be she wants to define the relationship and know whether to continue or not. I hate it when a girl asks such question without providing any info as to what she's thinking.
Could be, but it also could be you made her feel used or something similar and now she wants to know what she means to you
Yep. She wants you to herself.
Just tell her "You are mine."
And when she says "Are you mine?"
You say "Absofuckinglutely"
This is a typical question from women. They are all same in the world. İn every country girls use the same arguments. Like feminists use have the same argument in every country and hate men.
Maybe if you have the conversation with her you'll find out... But it looks like she might want to be exclusive
She wants to know if this is going anywhere or if she is wasting her time. This is not something a friend asks a friend.