Why won't my boyfriend share his phone and passwords with me?

I said to him that he can look through my phone but he said no and he won't let me look at his phone.
He won't share his computer or social media accounts.

What is he hiding? Why is he behaving like this?

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What Guys Said 12

  • Is this what young people are doing nowadays?
    I've never had a woman ask me for my phone and social media passwords nor have I ever wanted to ask a woman for hers.

    Doing those things would rank somewhere between a swift and hard kick in the testicles and being blindfolded and told to hold still while someone throws knives to outline my tied-up form in terms of what I expect from a relationship.

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  • depends on how long you've been together really, also look around the circumstances n shit, do you still do intimate shit etc etc does he show interest in you and if he does there's no need to worry, just means he wants his privacy and you should let him.
    a relationship is built around trust and a willingness to move forward and if you become nosy and suspicious for no reason he's going to get irritated and it will go the bad way so just give him his space will ya.

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  • Dosent mean he's hiding anything but isn't comfortable handing his phone over. Dosent have to be a bug deal unless you make it one. Do you not trust him? Do you have reason not too?

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  • What if you guys break up? You now have all of his passwords. Also, why would you need his passwords? To go through his phone anytime you want, just to look if he's cheating on you?

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  • because there's a thing called provacy and you being his girlfriend doesn't entitle you to his entire privacy. he's still a individual person, not your property.

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  • Do you do the same with your accounts... or your purse? Would you let him go through your phone and social media?

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    • 6d

      He doesn't ask for it but I would let him.

    • 6d

      Offer yours in trade for his if it such a big deal for you. However, for him, it might just be a case of personal sovereignty. If it's a deal breaker for you, or him, you will both have to make a decision from there.

  • If he has nothing to hide then he should show you. On the other hand, why do you need to look? Do you suspect him of doing something?

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  • Why do you need that? And how long have you been together?

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  • To stop you from seeing all the porn and chats with other girls ,,,,

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  • He’s not obligated to? Stop being nosey.

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  • Why do you need them? Don't you trust him?

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  • What do you need it for?

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What Girls Said 3

  • ... I gonna be honest... Men are private people my boyfriend didn't let me into his stuff but I made mine all open to him. I put my Instagram on his phone and he hated it. So when I finally got into his phone there's nothing. So I guess if you think your guy could be playing around. Like think of the way he asked you out was it intement and such? Like then you'll just kinda know Don't jump on his shit real quick.

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  • Its called privacy and some people like myself are not necessarily hiding something, its just that we dont like someone feeling like they need to monitor out private conversations. Now if you dont trust him that one thing but just cause you offer to let him see everything you do doesn't mean he has to feel the same way

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  • he's cheating on you

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    • 6d

      you should not be giving this advice especially if you can only write an answer of 4 words and make it sound so ignorant and stupid 3 guys in 10 minutes disliked it, most guys don't want you to be nosy through their shit especially if you haven't been together for a long time yet.
      your comment is quite stupid.

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    • 6d

      just thought i'd point out why it is so stupid.

    • 6d

      @Gopnik okay babes, r u good now?

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