Why would it be awkward?
Awkward because they could end up having sex and if neither one wants that is no good
I know right. It's so much funnn 😆😆😆😆😆
Part of the fun of vacation is meeting women in other places for me, a friends with benefits might interfere with that lol
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Question how could you go out with your friends with benefits and do romantic things if one of you did not want a relationship?I have a crush on a guy I just had gone on dates twice and we had made out at the end of eachdate. That is the most romantic thing we hd done so far, making out we never had sex because for me having sex in the first or 2nd date is way too soon but he never mention he wanted sex in those 2 first dates either but he thought about it in the second date.. He is kind of a friend but we do not hang out often, in fact months and months could pass and we do not even see each other or even text each other much. I am still very attracted to him since i met him 4 years ago and he seemed he was attracted to me as well but he does not want a relationship just to be friends he does not plan to marry in his future or form a family either, he enjoys being single, hang out with his male buddies and enjoy freedom, he is 45 years old. The thing is that he wants sex and not just plain dates anymore he believesi m taking too long to decide or drag the issue, but it that even as a friend, he is impatient, and we are nothing we are just friends as he wants to be so I dont know why he is being ipatient, if he knows already my status.I mean he just got bother that I am delaying the intimacy with him, he hasnot told me thatdirectly but Im assuming that is what he thinks of me.
@kitty71 So to answer your question, I have first a confession to make. I am in a friends with benefits relationship right now. I mean, I guess we are dating but there has never been a discussion of committment. We had sex, but I am not really attracted to her even though we are continuing to go on dates. Its no different than dating someone because you are bored or lonely and the person you are seeing is someone you like but there is just no "spark".You have a right to have sex and consent when you feel comfortable. I would say in my experience having sex on the first or second date doesn't change anything about a relationship. I have realized either the spark is there or it is not. After having sex on a first date I realized that I would have eventually been dating her regardless anyway. Anyways, my situation is like your because we dont hang out much. I am the guy in your situation.I would also say that we as men have an easier time separating sex from feelings. For a lot of men, sex is a physical experience. For women, sex is an emotional experience. Men are in their parts, women are in their head. You have described delaying sex as delaying intimacy. That is not how a man views it. A man views delaying sex as delaying sensual pleasure. Intimacy is the prelude to sex. It is the seed of sex so to speak. You have intimacy with someone at least on some kind of level far before you have sex. Women have vaginas that get wet when they are horny based on the intimate chemistry with someone. This chemistry is established via an emotional connection in the moment (hence why romance and all the sparkle is needed). Men operate different. Sex for us is a physical act and we do not need intimacy to get an erection. You will find out the truth of his feelings immediately after sex, not before. We are most honest after our orgasm, but will spat out any bullshit words in order to get sex.
So if guys do not need intmmacy to have an orgasm well men will have to understand that women do need intimacy and w are not just an object to grab and go and have sex with no foreplay first which is very important. What man do not like foreplay this intmacy then?
@kitty71 You are correct. A man that knows a woman knows that a woman needs foreplay to orgasm. And by foreplay, I mean the whole nine yards and not just the physical part. It is the whole ambiance of the experience. It is the allure. As a man I would say i am different than most men. I guess I consider myself a "helpless romantic" and in many respects, I am somewhat metrosexual and feminine. So I relish romance and absolutely love foreplay. My favorite part is giving than receiving. Why do I say all this? I say this because I go into a meet with any woman, even if it is casual and friendly, as a prelude. It IS foreplay. I know that if you are funny, charming, having deep and intimate conversation... just a casual meet up with the intention of friendship can lead to sex. That is what happened with the current girl I am seeing. We met up agreeing to be friends. 2 hours, just 2 beers, and weird intimate talk of dreams, kids someday, career, and strangely boxers or briefs mixed with bras in conversation.. and she was in my apartment having sex. It is all about how you make a woman feel and not at all about common sense or reason. Women are moved by feeling. That drink, that dinner, that ambiance... all of it is foreplay.I knew the girl was wet and horny when she got quite, ruffled her hair, went to the bathroom, and the girl next to us at the bar gave me a dirty look because we were talking about why she liked boxer briefs and why I liked push up bras. haha.If this dude really does like you, he has to make you feel a profound emotion. Even if it is negative like awkward conversation.. it leads to vulnerability.. real feelings. You mix that in with sexual tension and everyone is horny. One both parties are horny then the guy needs to use foreplay to tease and throb every inch of her body.You need to tell him he can only have sex by making it a date. Tell him "sex is painful" unless there is romance. My advice is to meet for one on one convo at bars. Sexual tension.
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@VIVANT Hey Thanks!
Np Too many #indenials out there 🙄
Lol you’re a sugar baby
@princessfromjupiter Yeah, on those trips I am. But it's only because she wants total control over her vacations and doesn't want to have to compromise with someone else.
I’m sure many friends with benefits have feelings they are just too afraid to admit it
Rather poll on it
Do you regret it?
Hooking up with who?
with new people
That’s shook up not a friends with benefits
So then why not go on vacation and date
Im just saying if you go on vacation you're more than friends with benefits
Memories for years to come sounds like strongs?
@VIVANT , I like that idea. Yet I was thinking about the friends with benefits, your right it can get messy and can come across as strings if I talk about it. What goes on in vacation should stay in vacation!!
5700km drive and we ran out of thing to talk about after a hour and a half
Lol hmmm lacking in the friend portion of friends with benefits 😁😁
We wear good friends at one point but there was a falling out and to awnser your question yes it is possible to drive across Canada in 3 days in a moving van
Oh I KNOW it is 😉
A fellow Canadain very nice