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It's the fact that when we get older, we won't look as young. So then we're afraid our men will leave us for a younger woman.
It's just jealousy. Can I ask you, how do the female friends who disagreed with you dating this 17 yo compare to her in looks?
I think it has to do with various things:
- There's the attractivity of the older guys. The older, but not by that much, allure of experience and shit. Young girls are more likely for it to be first love and shit. So more romantic. They think that if they break up with someone or someone doesn't like them back it's the end of the world. So no, they don't put you on a pedestal, they just think that your relantionship is EVERYTHING. Off course, it's not true but can you explain that to a lovesick teenager?
- I get why your female friends don't like your behaviour. They might be of consent age but that age differnce is stil quite big. Not only that, but by the way you describe this girls' behaviour and by the things I stated above, I find them too imature to an actual relationship.
- No, teen girls aren't prettier than girls your age. Sure, one or two might be but don't generalise. Most teengirls wear a heck lot of make-up. They're at an impressionable age and think that if they look bad it will be a blow on their social status. Girls your age are older and more knowledgeable, they care about looks but know that not looking 110% isn't the most important. They don't put you on a pedstal because they know that their actual important things are career, family and friends.
In your situation, no. I can see older women (35-40+) being jealous of younger women (under 30, over 18) as the value tends to shift at that point.
In your situation though, I highly doubt there is any jealousy whatsoever and it’s more that people are judging you for dating a school girl when you’re “apparently” a fully functioning adult. There is something seriously wrong with an adult man dating a 17 year old girl, it’s predatory and in completely different life stages with very little overlap with someone with such little life experience. I’d judge the fuck out of someone I met like that too, I find it disgusting that someone can’t find a partner in their own age bracket so they prey on school teens to feel better about themselves 🤮
You maybe aren't that much of a valuable man in my opinion. I'm 18 years old and I've learned to stay tf away from "Older Men" attempting to date you. These men may have cars, places maybe even a little money. Guranteed however there's something definitely off about him and there's a reason why he's choosing to date more gulliable females.
We don’t think y’all have higher value lmaoo the girls probably dislike it because they think you are dating down too young.
Thts fucking disgusting
Maybe because a 17 y. old is a MINOR? Just saying.
If you were 19 it would be fine but at 25 you're too old for that. You've been out of school for 8 years and she probably hasn't even graduated high school.
Date anyone you want as long as they're 18+
Your female friends are jealous. Maybe because they want you for themselves. Either way, the situation as a whole, is a pity.
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