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Probably close to the 4th or 5th date I haven’t felt any nerves as much.
Maybe temporary if an online date compliments me and is chivalous.
And then asks me out a few times after AND regularly pursues (daily).
But I’ve experienced a lot of ghosting and rejection, so I never feel truly ‘secure’ in dating scenarios. Trying to build my confidence. So taking a hiatus from that world.
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Ironically enough, I started relaxing more when I noticed that at times she could be as nervous and insecure as me.
As we got more and more used to each other, we became more and more comfortable.
As soon as I start talking to a woman I am 100% fine. It is everything leading up to it that makes me nervous.