I think it's best to only hit them up when u want sex. No extra conversation. I do that with my ex. I only fuck him when I feel like fucking and not when he feels like it. Cause then I'd never get breathing room😂😂😂😂 and then I space it out a lot. Like maybe once or twice ever 3 or 4 months. Works like a charm. And no cuddling not unless he initiates it.
I think that’s the BEST way to handle it.Of course, my issue is I’ve developed a conscious because a lot of women put emphasis on that FRIEND part.Whether it be friends with benefits or sex friends. It’s all fun and games until he throw that good dick and you’re in your feelings.
I've had good dick. STUPENDOUSLY GOOD DICK AND IT WAS BIG. that was my ex. But i caught feelings because we were hanging out too much, talking too much, too much physical contact. And he was fucking me raw continuously 3/4 times a day. Endless orgasms, we even be fucking when we were hanging out. Going to the movies, restaurants, while he was driving in the car. Only place we didn't fuck was at his job 😂😂😂😂😂😂
See he dicked me down too frequently and I wasn't fucking no one else. Now if I fucked someone else on top of fucking him it could've thwarted the feelings
Lolol. Exactly. People want exclusivity with that kinda thing.Ya’ boy is ‘bout that life too.But anyway that’s how it be sometimes. 🤣 I used to be on the thot life too because of mine. But I’ve matured a lot since then, but there are times where I get hurt and want to go right back to the thot life.
You know what they say once a thot... always have the propensity to thot it up again.
I suppose if u have a lot good sex the thot life is good. My thot days was terrible 95% of the guys nutted waaaaay to fast, I only got to enjoy a few strokes. One guy I KNEW WAS gone be good, it was big and he could work it but I didn't really get to enjoy it because he nutted so fast like maybe 6 or 7 strokes. My ex is the rare few who can hold his nut long enough. I'm not excited about going back to the thot life😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lol. Well that depends on the girl. If all you were was sex, I just nutted and called if day. But if I liked, you’re not going home for awhile and I mean awhile. A few of them finished before I did, especially the ones I really liked. 🤣
Well I don't know. Cause they came back asking for more and I turned them down. Only one guy didn't. And there was one guy we were nothing but sex but he fucked me SO good and his dick was SO big. Good god😂😂😂😂
Dude prolly had all the chicks in his DM’s. 😂 Because of his peepee alone.
@Mittens I actually love men who are a bit jealous and possessive (not too much though). It’s really manly in my opinion
Yeah, humans like having that kinda attention. Feels good, until it’s bad.
They do. Especially if u not begging them for no relationship😂😂😂😂
They ok if u fuck them once or even twice. But hell some guys move fast. Cause I've had some we fucked once or twice and they want ed me to be they girl😂😂😂😂😂😂
That's a lie, cause I can. But I've had my merry go round. That's probably why lol
How is what I say a lie just because you can? Makes no sense.
I don't know. U right I don't know why I said that. Reading ure comment again😭😭
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Your sex life sounds awesome. I'm jealous
don't be jealous, just find the right man talk to men first before deciding with whom you want to settle down with
Well u are 41 and never been married I'm not surprised
@BrownBratzDoll and some wonder why...
Wonder why what?
What does that mean? Your whole comment is confusing me😂😂😂😂
Your look suggests that you don’t want to be in a relationship where you taking care of kids, so you shouldn’t look for a man that wants those things
I do want a relationship. So all my Bill's can get paid and my shopping sprees. I dont mind popping out a kid or two for it😂😂😂😂😂 that was wrong to say but oh well
Sounds like you want a surgar daddy and a sperm donor, no where does it sound like you want a husband that loves you, guess what you’ll end up with with
Because a man that loves me. It's a natural occurance not abnormal or something extra to me. So I think nothing of.
Wow that different, so you don’t care if a guy loves you?
I'm saying it's something that comes with the territory to me. I like romance too. A man doing romantic things for me. I care more about his service to me more so than his legit feelings. As long as he give me all I request we good
I dont need him to be too emotionally attached cause then we can't have sex adventures like swingers or threesomes or orgies together
I'm still tripping what about me says I'm not the domestic type😂😂😂😂
Lol you really think it’s possible to be a swinger and have threesomes. Then afterwards attend church, something’s just don’t go together.Oh like if you stuck a finger in your dudes butt are you still gonna respect him?
I'm not religious
Yes I would respect him. But I wouldn't stick my finger in his butt maybe a wet wipe with a object that looks like a finger😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭 bruuuuh
I’m just saying certain things don’t go together, like there no lesbians at my sisters dance practice because lesbians don’t have kids it’s the same with you, girls that want to be swingers an see men as someone that can take care her financial needs aren’t the same girls that end up in happy relationships, and you didn’t need to tell me you weren’t religious I figured that out long ago lol
Why would I not be happy if I'm getting all I want, u make no sense. I honestly prefer to be in lust and like then love. Love gives someone waaaay too much power over u. So nah I'm good. But I am the domestic type. I haaaaaate 9 to 5s. I'd rather be home and making babies.
I’ve never heard of a stay at home mom that didn’t love there husband that didn’t end up in a horrible divorce.
I wouldn't be with a man who couldn't make me laugh😐😐😐 and happy. U dont have to be madly in love to be in a good and content relationship. I have no clue why what I want is bad. That's what I want
Probably because I am not desperate and it just has stupid idea written all over it.
How is that desperate. Are u white?
Yup it's better I agree. Cause emotion is there. Makes it more intense and fun