- Find a boyfriend/girlfriend
- Get married
- Netflix, Oreos, and Sweatpants... I am done with dating
- Get divorced
- Going MGTOW/WGTOW
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Just like the previous years, I had long decided to remain single indefinitely, although I don't have time for netflix, rarely eat oreos, if ever, and rarely ever wear sweatpants. And going mgtow doesn't exactly make sense since I'm not blaming the other gender for it, as most seem to be when they follow that crowd and associate with that label, in which I don't fit with. I just don't like this reality, world, of how absurd it all really is, also don't see the point of dating anybody at all since I don't ever want to marry or have children, not that it means that should always be the end goal, I just don't feel dating, relationships, etc. matters or see the point in doing so at all for so long, so what's the point? It doesn't guarantee me any "happiness" or "fulfillment", it's not going to fix my deep deep existential unhappiness and unhappy with the way how this reality really is type of issues. So really what is the point at all? And just because and even if I did find somebody that also did not ever want to marry and did not want any children of their own, that still does not automatically mean that they are a "perfect fit" or is guaranteed or absolutely the "right" person for me. So what is the point of me even dating or looking for anybody to date at all?
I don't officially have a real plan. Most of my money so far is going towards self-improvement, so I don't know how much will be left for dating. If things somehow take off, I'd simply like to find a girlfriend. That's not likely, though.
I have been looking at the stuff behind MGTOW, and while I'm not fully invested, there are a lot of things that make sense. I don't see myself officially "committing" to it (some of those guys sound VERY bitter), but I do think there are a lot of hurdles that would have to be knocked down before I'd be super invested in something long term. I think that most of the things I'd want not too many women would go for - like prenups.
So while nothing is really "planned", I'm less and less interested in jumping into marriage at all, and more and more interested in just giving up and working on things I want outside of dating. I hate the idea of being perpetually single, and it's lonely as hell, but I don't see much happening any time soon. Maybe there will be a time where I just give up on women and distract myself completely with work and video games.
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C. Only change out the Netflix and oreos, to barbells and protein shakes!
I'm going to work on getting a fit and sexy body- not for a man, but so I look and feel better about myself.
If a guy comes along? Great. But when you've been single for nearly 10 years, you learn to put yourself first, and appreciate other things in life more than chasing after a fantasy or whim.
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