If a guy never expressed his intention to be exclusive why would he get angry?

And yeah... i was kinda looking for a way out. He's too pushy.
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  • He's a gaslighter. He wants anything and everything to be your fault, so he's laying the groundwork now. Any guy who feels the need to both proclaim is own status as "a real catch", and at the same time denigrate his choice in partners needs to be kicked to the curb. How much of a catch can he be if his usual mode is to "fuck around" with "dumb chicks"?

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    • I figured. Conversations with him were pretty one sided, and he acted like women were only good for sex and he was pushy for sex all the time... He's not a bad looking guy himself though so I don't understand why he acts the way he does.

    • He actually blackmailed me

    • Yup. In keeping with his behavior. He wants to be "in control" more than to be the recipient of your affection. Kick him to the curb, and walk away.

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  • He wants complete and total control over you that what you do.

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    • He actually blackmailed me when I said I don't want to see him anymore. What the actual fuck!

    • Probably can’t get a girl the other way. And thank you for MHO.

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  • Gathering from the picture, it sounds like you guys talked about this other guy before so there’s no reason for him to get so upset if he never made his intentions obvious. I think he may just not know how to handle rejection and has too much pride. Sounds like it couldn’t be helped. I’d just move on w the other guy

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  • He shouldn't have to. It is usually glaringly obvious or assumed already. Hints are clearly drawn and as per using, they're were ignored.

    Not everything has to be spoken. Something's are just implied

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    • He was still playing around on tinder... that sounded like a hint of not being exclusive

  • Lmao "I'm a real catch so your loss"💀 Who does he think he is

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    • someone who actually has a modicum of self respect?

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    • He didn't have to ask

    • Good luck with him

  • The fact you say to not be mad makes you both horrible. A relationship is exclusive to the two people UNLESS they both talk about it being open, that's standard. You dont have to talk about it being exclusive with anyone normal.

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    • doesn't seem like they were in a relationship yet so no, probably not assumed exclusive

  • everybody lets call tanner :P
    im sure he will wonder who the fuck is calling me from central Europe :P

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  • He sounds weak. Just take it like a man. Don't complain about it and act like what your not. Fucking hell what a pussy

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  • Because their was a lack of communication. Y’all didn’t express what it was in the beginning and the problem is he ASSUMED that you felt the same way. Just tell him the truth

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  • What was your relationship with him, casual I assume?

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    • Yeah, and he knows it. That's why I'm confused

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    • We only met twice. And he's very moody.

    • You only met twice? This guy sounds like a stage 5 clinger! Let me know when you read the other messages, I would bet to guess they are a mix of anger and denial. I've dealt with someone like that, pretty pathetic!

  • Tanner does indeed appear to have a thing for "dumb".

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  • Human nature some people only want to label something when it’s too late.

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  • You want me to sign his number up to a gay porn site so he gets daily messages?

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  • You forgot to censor out his number tbh. I am not sure what phone.

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  • Seems like Tanner is an immature asshole. You're better off without him

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  • You know we can all contact Tanner now yeah? His number is on the message

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  • I hate this kind of guys.

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  • you must be blonde... and retarded...

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    • Auburn hair :p and he never said it was exclusive

    • once your done being a liberal and using your vagina like a credit card. then get with somebody serious like you had and be loyal to him. your vagina isn't made to let everybody get a ride. thats how you end up with aids and never being able to find someone serious

    • Um. This other guy seemed way more serious then him

  • Serves you right for having an android

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  • Because he's a fucking egit. It's that simple.

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  • Sometimes it’s common sense

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  • He wants you. He just doesn't know how to commit

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  • He shouldn't need to express any intention to be exclusive.

    Even if he didn't say anything and even considered the possibility that you might do something like this, well that doesn't mean he's to be totally cool with it -- and there's no reason why he necessarily should be.

    Here's a guy who liked a girl and she just goes off with some other guy, it would be weird if he was just totally comfortable with it. You could at least just end it normally and keep the new thing quiet. It seems like you kept at *least* one guy on the hook while you waited for other options. This whole thing and it's execution on your part was somewhat sleazy.

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  • Wow. So I take it the other dude was way better than this guy?

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  • Boi are you one "dumb" bitch lmfao

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  • You're dumb why did you posted his number?

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    • Ya ik I'm not the brightest bulb. Guys don't date me for being smart

  • Don’t call tanner guys, don’t be dicks

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  • What's the catch?

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    • Was trying to break it to him it wasn't gonna work out between us. He was pretty pushy about my schedule and didn't schedule time like a question, just a "matter of fact" statements. I felt like dancing on eggshells in person with him... so i opted for text...

  • Asshole

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    • Umm not sure I could report it for you to try to have it takin down if ya want

    • It's stuck for 24 hours. GOD! I'm stupid. I guess it was just the heat of the moment.

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