Not Talents like singing or playing an instrument. Not Hobbies like working out or playing video games.
I’m talking about Handy Skills like carpentry, pluming, gardening, cooking, grilling/barbecuing and automotive/mechanic. Being able to listen and communicate effectively, make small talk, read a map, sew, take care of a baby/child, wash laundry (and fold It), balance a budget, mix a damn good cocktail do the dishes or excel at their job.
Things that may require both of you or maybe some thing you don’t know how to do or hate doing. You get the idea.
Mine would have to be:
Balancing a budget, I can fallow one but I can’t for my life make one.
Taking care of a baby/child, I think both parents need to be able to do this if you’re going to have children.
Excelling at his job, it doesn’t matter what it is just that he takes pride in it and has a good environment at his job so he isn’t stressed out all the time.
Most Helpful Guys
1) Good at strategy games (board games or video games or card games that involve strategy and critical thinking, not just luck or reflexes or whatever).
2) Good at deep conversation and debate. Like philosophy and politics and religion and science. Mostly just patient and open-minded and critical enough to have those conversations and not get bored or change the subject.
3) Communication skills; say what you mean and listen when I'm opening up to you.
That's my top three, not in that order but w/e.
The whole gamut of DIY, cooking and gardening. Someone who can consistently put a shot in the 7 ring or better would be welcome too.
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Someone who is handy like carpenter skills. Cause that’s something I’d like to learn and do with them too.
Cooking as well too because I’d like to be treated with something random. :)
Who also is about team work. Compromising so we are both helping each other and be stress free. Taking turns watching the kids, being able to cook one day, who does the shopping, paying the bills, having our alone time, sexual desires. And so on. Otherwise ones gonna feel they are doing more of everything then the other.
His skills of doing what I can't do.
Any skill that I don't have.