Do you think its a good idea to send nudes?

Why or why not.

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  • Even if you follow the advice to not include your face in the pictures, you will probably take them in your bedroom and anyone who has been there will recognize it. And when Henry gets mad at you and he shows Darryl that picture of you, he's gonna say, "Yeah, here's a picture of that bitch's pussy," and Darryl knows that Harry and you just broke up, so why does it matter that you can deny it's you. Everyone will know that it is.

    Suppose the pictures get posted online. Don't you think your kid brother or cousin will recognize the pictures when they are surfing for porn? Then somebody shows it to your father, "Lester! Isn't that your daughter? You need to have a talk with her!"

    MAYBE none of that will happen but, if it does, your world will be torn apart. WHY should you take such a chance? WHy should you send a picture of your naked body to a guy if you are not in a sexual relationship with him? And if you are having sex with him, why does he need the pictures? He already knows what you look like naked!

    Horrible idea!

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  • Well I do have to admit that I have... but I find it degrades ones vallue a little... of a guy can’t wait to see the goods he isn’t suggesting that you are worth the presses to crest the spark. And rise a desire...

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  • Its not a good idea, but also not a bad idea in some cases. It depends upon the receiver, like if its someone you know for a good time & can trust him fully. I dont see anything wrong with that but always with precautions. We all know prevention is better than cure. So, take pictures with not a single hint of your surroundings or objects. Some closeups are good since no one can identify even if they somehow out on internet.

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  • No! If something happens and "you and he" break up, how do we know he won't post them online, pass them around, show them to other people, etc. (especially if it's a bad breakup)? If you're still together and your pictures are (for example) on his phone, how do we know someone won't look at his phone and see your pics? (Even locked phones can be hacked into.) I wouldn't recommend it, hon!

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  • Depends to who , like if the person is someone you like and trust and have some romantic feelings for. I dont see anything wrong with that. If you send nudes to just random folks who you have known for a week then bad idea.

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    • But wouldn't you be worried about the consequences

    • IM 21 xD I've already had consequences with my nudes before because i was dumb and young and trusted too easy. At this age now, I only send it to guys I trust and like. And i mean minimum of 6 months of knowing them sometimes even more. If it feels right with the person i trust, I know there won't be any consequences apart from good ones ;) if you know what i mean.

  • Probably not because it does not disappear and is always on the net. I think i have done it once or twice before when i was younger, now i do nude modeling so its a mute point lol

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  • I think it's asinine. It's also very foolish. Girls think their boyfriends would never put them on social media, but when they break up, the pictures are there for every body to see. I understand people getting upset by it, but I don't feel sorry for them. Also, if the picture doesn't show their head doesn't guarantee anything. Anyone can post the pictures and say it is a certain person. Some will believe it and others won't. Do you want some people believing it. The consequences are the same.

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  • Dear lord no, nudes are a horrible idea. Even if your sending them to someone you trust and care for. Because people tend to forget that when you shoot someone a nude it’s out there forever. Once it’s on a devices memory it can be pulled off of that device even after it’s been deleted. And that’s not even asking about wether or not they would intentionally put it out there or it could just be intercepted like literally any digital signal can be with the right equipment.

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  • No cuz I think you should respect your body and not treat it as the sex object or shit.

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    • So you would never ask your girl to send you any

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    • NO I would never ask the woman for nude, when I can have the whole-real thing in my bed and I will never ask it before the sex,
      It gives the wrong vibes and She classify you as "hungry for sex" but if you can control your desire, it keeps the whole suspense thing and then I go far to amaze her in bed with 8+ and actually know HOW TO USE IT?
      It will make her night the best and fuck the crap out of her...

      NO I will not think less of her if She offered the nudes but it will make me think, YOU are free giving type and not a good thing to have but it depends upon guy.

    • Lol I got excited and made grammar mistakes...

  • On one hand, yeah, because I love them.

    On a more realistic note, they're not the best idea. For one, erasing something from existence once it's been transferred to someone else is almost impossible. Especially if it hits the internet. They can really come back and bite you in the ass, be it personally or professionally. Also, of you're underage you, depending on your local laws you could be charged with production and distribution of child pornography.

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  • I think it's the worst idea since swallowing a spoonful of cinnamon. Why? You're 18, you're dating guys within your age range, and they're going to share your nudes. Doesn't matter if you "think" he's your boyfriend and would "never do that". Maybe he won't WHILE he's your boyfriend, but he will after he's not. Also, you should respect yourself more than that, and realize that guys who actually ask for nudes, are douche bags.

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  • It's not a good idea unless it's with someone you trust fully. As others have said, keep anything strictly identifiable to you out of the picture. A neck-down picture of your body would be fine. It's not like your vagina has a nametag on it, right?

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  • No , the internet these day's 4th party buy in's on working parts in cell phone that can be pushed in mega Hz and codes with passwords that put your pics anywhere but where you sent them and also where you send nudes, that's called computer hackers.
    Note not , Hacker

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  • Probably not and yet people still do it. Keep your face out of them at least, and don't include anything that can easily identify you. At least then you have plausible deniability.

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  • lmao it's almost never a good idea to send nudes! At best it's not a horrible idea, and that's only when your man-picker gets lucky and found you one that isn't gonna blast your tits all over creation for bargain rights.

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  • No, it is foolish and can easily come back to haunt you. Not worth it. Even if it does not have your face it can be traced back to the camera that took it and often the GPS location it was taken.

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  • I wouldn't say its a good idea to send them to people you barely know. But if you're in a relationship with someone and you happen to be away from them, its a way to surprise them a little and make things spicy lol

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  • NO, My advice is the same to people that consider doing that. never send someone a pic that you wouldn't be ok with uploading indiscriminately to the internet.

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  • One of my friends had her nudes posted on every wall of my school by her ex.

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  • No. If your relationship isn't ready for sex, it isn't ready for nudes--and even if it is ready for sex... well, sex makes nudes obsolete.

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  • no, if stuff ever goes bad between the people that have a lot of power over you, odds are they will save them

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  • Only if you’re careful enough, meaning send only to people you trust, never show your face and make sure the background is generic enough so it can’t be identified as you 😉

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  • Nope, because they could be spread around the internet.
    xx
    ~ Mrs Manson

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  • only if a film or Polaroid physical photos only because you control them

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  • It's not smart. It will likely never disappear and is very likely to be shared on other mediums

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  • Depends on the receiver, depends on whether u care being on the net or not, depends if it shows your face or not,

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  • It depends. if you don’t care about the consequences then go for it.

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  • If both people agree and keep it private I think so yes.

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  • Never. No good will come of it and eventually they will be distributed.

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  • Not the best, but if you do, don't show your face or tattoos if you have any

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  • Yes but not on all apps as it's not always safe over Internet these days.

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  • Only if you are legal and sending them to me.

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  • No dont since he can use it to blackmail

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  • If u r ready to fight

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  • that's is totally up to you,

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  • Depends on the guy you send them too, when I was younger I’d show them to my friends, wouldn’t do that now though

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  • Not sure why girls do it i think they just like the attention

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    • Girls usually tell me because they have been asked for it or it was just the heat of the moment

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    • Well I have been asked for pics, but that's not why I asked. I asked because I usually discussed this topic with my friends and they told me that they did. So I wanted to know what you guys thought

    • I have a few sisters and i would never want them so send nudes i know guys shouldn't ask but also girls should learn to say no they do honestly just give them out at my school its trashy they just want attention

  • I would not do it. It might come back to haunt you.

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