That is a very good list. Let's hope the men read them!
I'm not sure if there's any men left that make your list. If they can't lack confidence or have too much what's the exact middle for you?
@thechesseman You find that happy median! You're confident in what you CAN offer to others (and yourself). But don't come off as arrogant or rude either. Basically let your actions speak for you. It's cliche but it's true.
Well in both cases it's true, my face and height are already repellant enough to women as is.
So why doesn't she then?
She is very overweight and has a learning disability and her previous boyfriends treated her even worse and some were only pretending to date her so they could scam her out of money.
Geeez... looks like someone needs to talk some sense to her. That is terrible.
She has a hard life yes - I told her to dump him and she ignored me and after almost a year of friendship - I stopped hanging out with her. She did a lot of things I didn't approve of - like spending $50 a day of her parents money when they were making minimum wage or eating junk food when she weighed 300 pounds. It was mostly a pity friend. I never liked her.
Shame on uuuu
Agree... good points
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I don't know about the no drive one. I'm 19 and I don't really have a strong drive, I kinda just go with the flow of life. I have a goal to be comfortable but not necessarily rich like a 2 bedroom apartment and a 1970s baby blue Cadillac. Other than that I'd just go with the flow
If Elizabeth Warren (Ms. 1/1024th honest about anything) somehow wins in 2020, I might have to move to the Philippines for my own safety. I have a feeling if I want to find a wife over there, I'd need your help. You're pretty wise, and definitely have a way with words.
@Pinay_akoMen that aren't selfish?I could find a unicorn first
@Wowgirl30q same about woman ;) hummans in general are selfish, just some show it way more than others.
@Janncis yeah I am your right But I am a work in progress and a only childAll I can do is evolve
I can be a little lazy but not to lazy!
@shyapples2 nobody is perfect my love
@ObscuredBeyond Thank you :)
@Hypnos0929 No drive - meaning he has no goals, ambition in life that he is content doing nothing about it. You are still young. You don't have to a lot of money to enjoy life to the fullest. I am saying is don't be content of being alive. Live it like it's your last day
@Pinay_akoYou tried man
@Wowgirl30q Hey admitting you might be part of the problem is the first step wowgirl. Good luck to you. :)
@ChiTown33 I'm not the problem..I'm the answer..😂 Thank you for that sirIf your never wrong you never learn
Don't get me wrong though, I highly appreciate and PREFER a man that respects his mother and is obedient and dutiful towards her.
Oh my... big list
You wouldn't believe... I've dated a guy with all those traits in your list. I still loved him and it was a huge mistake :-(
My list is based off my experiences 😳. so we are in the same boat 🤣
Yikes... that's terrible... I'm glad I'm not alone in this
Lol I like how ur list started with insecure and ended with mr. This and Mr. That lol but agree with all of those there's a lot more to add to the list still
What's wrong with Mr. Antisocial.
I guess like u thug niggas with BMs in the past cause u mentioned that twice
@SAS why would I want a guy with no social skills?
Having no social skills and being anti social are two different things. A person with no social skills maybe want to learn them but is shy or doesn't have anyone to teach it to him. An antisocial person may very well have social skills but actively avoids social situations cause he doesn't enjoy them.
Either way I'm not interested
It's not healthy
Nah, sometimes avoiding people is better. But you do you
@red I'm not a lesbian so why tf would I care what a woman does? you're blocked read the question correctly
Avoiding "people" isn't better. That makes absolutely no sense. How do you plan to maintain a job or even have a career? Your talking is unrealistic
I didn't mean avoiding people altogether, that's impossible.For example, I'm great at mingling with people in situations like that. But stuff like going out on weekends and partying is not my scene. I don't like social gatherings like that. That's antisocial.
You said ,"avoiding people".
Yeah so I avoid people in social gatherings.
If you can manage not to get jealous, guys with female friends (or sisters) are way better at communicating, sensing what you might need and understanding you. They're the best!
@Felinegirl not from all my experiences. I dont get jealous but i’d have a right to be because those girls usually turn out wanting to be more than just his friend. They usually badmouth me and say that they want him for themself
Well if they have been friends for years or since before you met him, it's usually safe. If they were meant to be, it would already have happened.
@Felinegirl even if he doesn't want her, i wouldn't feel comfortable sitting round a skeeming female
14. The no hobbies, no talents kind
Okay then remind me to never approach you
@lonewolf1994 Lol that's funny :-)... I hope not. Creeps should stay away from women period... so stay away haha
I will dont worry, the ugly law should be reinstated for my case, I shouldn't be going outside without a mask or paper bag covering my face.
I really hope your joking lol because you sound scary
I'm half joking but look at my face
What do you mean half joking if you don't mind me asking? You have a cute, attractive innocent face, but faces can be deceiving. I don't trust anybody, especially guys until proven otherwise... that's the motto I live by now lol. Please know If by any chance you have a mental illness that does not make you a bad guy that's not what I meant in my comment. Except if you are some kind of narcissist or serial killer/psychopath... than yeah you are a creep haha
Don't lie y'all love that isb real talk
@Fuentes yeah... you are delusional
@ILoveAnime yeah and your 15 still growing lol and don't know the world yet at all
@Fuentes apparently, neither do you
@ILoveAnime yeah sorry i refuse to speak with minors
@Fuentes I generelly refuse to speak with delusionals but here I am.
@ILoveAnime WTF is going on here?
@Fuentes said that women liked the charecteristics that @mariuhhh_xo said that should be avoided so I called him delusional.
@ILoveAnime Okay.. obviously not worth a tit for tat because every tit for tat summons a notification for me since it's my post so if everyone has made their case i suggest to just move onward!
Well, what did you expect really? This can be seen as controversial, people will talk and defend their points.
@ILoveAnime telling someone they are delusional is not... I REPEAT... not... defending a point. It's name calling. So? How about defending your point intelligently? @Fuentes doesn't care about what you have to say so who are you talking too?
What am I suppoused to say? I expected that people would be critical enough to understand that no one wants to be treated badly which is obviously what would happen with any of this dudes. So me calling him delusional was a result of that. But I'm sorry that I forgot that some people have the cognitive skills of a 5-year-old.
@ILoveAnime I personally don't debate 5 year old's but i guess have at it! Live and learn.
Jealousy is not a good look! Wink
He's responded to a lot of my posts. Dammit coach stop coming on to me! Lol
@ChiTown33 Stop being so sexy. LOL
You guys are destroying my insult with your positivity and pokey-ness.
You were trying to insult me? That's hurtful bro. How could you?
Many dont.Some do.
Those man babies are the worst.
what the hell is a man baby?
@OvershareGamer. It's usually the men that can't get off their mama's nipple and can't do anything for themselves. As a woman you end up catering to their every need like you're their mama as well.
you mean like guys who get their mothers to do their laundry when they are 30yrs old? like that?
@OvershareGamer. That is one example. They can be younger too. I think us women don't mind doing things for our partners but man babies have a certain entitlement by expecting you to mama them. Some moms make the mistake of doing everything for their sons instead of teaching them how to do it themselves. So when they get into a relationship with a woman they want you to take care of them like their mama's did. And they will even run to mama and complain how his partner won't take care of him right while co-dependent mama makes him food and does his laundry he brought over.
Yep... for sure
Indeed, sir. I think all the stereotypical guys to avoid fall under the above categories, or a combination thereof.For example: A typical "Mama's Boy" primarily exhibits immature, spoiled, and narcissistic behavior. The often "Emotionally Unavailable" guy primarily exhibits immaturity. The "Showoff" primarily exhibits narcissism. The "Aggressive, Possessive, Abuser, Liar, Cheater... etc." primarily exhibits psychopathic and/or sociopathic traits.
Hey whats wrong with sociopath?
Thats a good start.
What about agnostics?
Oh no, I laughed
Would that be clouded judgement
@Furuok what do you mean?
The deceased are emotionally unavailable.
@Furuok I speak from experience. All I will say is that I'm still traumatized by the experience and god knows when I will be able to date again.
Why should god care? I bet the experience was pretty bad, still being ignored is not emotionally detached. Soldiers fight emotional detached, having a relationship is getting to know someone. The more time you spend on a masterpiece, you only hope it sells. For what it is worth men are jerks and only want sex. Sorry
@Furuok Sounds like you're fighting your own demons
I usually avoid people who complain about other's being "emotionally unavailable".
Emotionally unavailable? Would that be only communication is with computers not actual human contact? This would totally be me, no choice, captive of my own government.