Why do cheaters only want to fix the relationship AFTER you find out?

Anonymous
When they were too busy cheating, they never thought “how about I try and fix the relationship I have with my partner instead”. I just don’t get how people have several options, and they choose cheating. But, then when their partner finds out, and threatens to leave, then that is when the cheater “realizes” what they had and then want to fix it.

Why do cheaters only want to fix the relationship AFTER you find out?
Why do cheaters only want to fix the relationship AFTER you find out?
Why do cheaters only want to fix the relationship AFTER you find out?
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