Sorry guys, I don't mean to offend the lot of you. Its truly baffling to me that men over 25 years of age, can still play childish games with grown women. I know when your young you play these stupid games, but when you continue, after your a certain age, then your just a PUNK. Why don't you enlighten me please. If you don't care about a girl/women that your in a relationship with, then why stay why her. Or if you really don't like them that much why string them along? Why continue the charade of bullsh*t? Please help me to understand.
Why are some grown men such punks?
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In my opinion, it's an easy enough question to answer. Some folk are simply damaged goods, and most people are very stubborn and set in their ways. With the vast majority of people, their stubbornness means that any lasting change has to come from within. If they get away with bratty behavior for most of their lives, they have no incentive to change their attitudes towards others.
Maturing, for the most part, isn't a natural process, it's a matter of cause and effect. Without cause to change, there is no change in effect, and you end up with these grown men and patterns of immature, unhealthy behavior that are extremely hard to break them out of. What we commonly call 'lost causes'. Dating wise, they're landmines, you can't always tell that they're idiots until you're right on top of them, metaphorically speaking, and it blows up in your face.
I really don't know how people should deal with them. I usually tell my friends to try and stay clear of them, and if they end up with a sticky bomb, to carry on the metaphor, that won't leave them alone, I volunteer to have words with them.
I agree, though, that there's very few people more pathetic than adult men acting like this.0
because that's the way you like it. There are plenty of men that are very mature at that age. A lot of women are just naturally attracted to some of the traits that are inherent in these "punks" you are speaking of. So, instead of asking men why they are so immature, maybe you should be asking yourself why you keep picking immature guys.0
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