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What’s the difference between Hollywood and Real Life in 2019 in terms of physical contact on the first few dates?
Romance novels, fairy tales, movies, and tv shows seem to follow a formula when 2 strangers meet and for the most part there is limited physical touch in the beginning. Even the shows that have a few dates usually end with a hug and/or awkward kiss on the cheek as the audience sees both people don’t quite know their feelings and more importantly don’t know the other person’s feelings yet. So if we want to follow that formula it would make sense to focus on fun and getting to know someone on the first 3 dates. They teach us that emotions build over time and even some movies use the word love before they even kiss.
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l know how to love and respect a girl and been there for the girl and talk about everything that's what matters in a loving friendship /relationship and been there for each other
It's not exactly a question but why are both sexes so shallow nowadays? Both guys and girls have extremely high standards about what they're looking for in a partner, are cynical, selfish and self-entitled. Relationships have become like a trading market. Personality doesn't even matter anymore. Back in the past, in our grandparents' era it used to be about unconditional love
Nowadays, everyone is so conformist and cynical
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Why does it seem like every other girl r
I flirt, touch on or mess with not want to tell me they have a significant other/already in a relationship? Or even worse! They'll tell me but still want be super touchy and rub on me or let me rub on them, hang out, even hook up! It's been happening for about 4 years now (since I was about 17-18). I've stayed abstinent mostly (waiting for a girl with her head on straight). Would I be wrong to sleep with them or start an affair or something? It's getting lonely out here.
I am in a relationship for a year now, but we haven't have sex yet. I have HPV and i told him that when we met. He is afraid of the small possibility to get it even with a condom. He had sex with other women in the past but is afraid that i will give him HPV and he will get cancer. I have both high and low risk strains, i used to have warts but i succesfully removed them before i met him and they haven't reappeared for over a year now. He is afraid to touch me down there even with clothes on. I love him but i feel unwanted sexually and dirty every time i suggest to have sex and he refuses. Is splitting up the only road here?
Why do women seem to use men in a relationship?
In the sense that women look to get something out of a relationship with a guy and once they're done, or they feel that the guy is no longer interesting or beneficial, they're ready to move on to the next. And the fact that you're ready to move on to the next means you're looking to get something or some feeling out of the next guy.
I'm not saying that guys never use women, because plenty have used a woman for sex, but I'm saying with women it seems different in the way they use people. Like they already expect to get something good or wonderful in it, and when they get it they're satisfied - or maybe satiated - or they become bored and need to move on to the next thing they can get a feeling out of.
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Are single people seen as a problem that need to be dealt with? It seems the second you become single everyone sees you as a problem that needs fixing. They'll instantly tell you of a good hook up club where you can get a man or they'll have a friend who've you've nothing in common with or find remotely attractive then look at you with confusion when you decline. Its like if your single your supposed to just grab any man because it's shameful to be single.
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When I was younger, and before I graduated from dental school, I was never attractive enough. I know that I'm not physically attractive to most women, and when I was a college student, and when I was a recent college grad juggling 4 different part time jobs to get by, my luck with dating and relationships wasn't very good.
Now that I am a dentist (i. e. a professional who got his life together, and is doing well financially), I noticed that I'm far more desirable to women. Whenever I go on a dating app, I now get matched all the time, and my profile gets a ton of likes from potential dates.
I sometimes worry about who I am attracting because I've never experienced this kind of positive attention in the past. I'm very careful about who I involve myself with.
For example: I am most likely to swipe left on the following profiles:
- Every picture is in a club holding a drink
- Every picture has these "filters" (cat, dog, flowers... etc.)
- Those who are honest about their personality, and it's a type I've had a very negative experience with: "I'm a princess...", "I'm really sarcastic...", "My goal in life is to smash the patriarchy!"
Do you have any advice on how to deal with this kind of change?
It's a little overwhelming sometimes. I went from the occasional match or like, to an average of 2 likes per day, and a match every couple of days. For me, that's a lot, because in the past all I got was a "like" every now and then, and a match once in a blue moon.
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Heck yeah, let me get my list of questions ready for you sir!
You know I'm going to give you some challenging ones...
•Looking at the dating scene, along with sexual culture now (one night stands, hookups, fwbs) you think it's worth it for people seeking a monogamous relationship to even bother looking for a relationship?
•What advice would you give someone that's pretty much given up on love and trying to find a relationship?
•What advice would you give to women about what we should know about men (can be anything in general you think would be useful)
•Why is it so difficult for some people to say they've lost interest in you or no longer want to date you?
By that I mean a person guys from talking to you daily and wanting a relationship with you, to talking to you less and less, making up excuses as to why things won't work out, or ghosting you... rather than just saying s/he doesn't want to be with you.
•In your opinion, is it easier to be single or in a relationship, and why? Assume both parties are happy with their relationship status.
If I think of more questions, I'll add a comment
Women love money or men or men, who have money?
None I am philosophical lol
Sorry I missed ya! Hope you all had a good time. :)
I'm gucci, ty
I also have none..
Would a guy respond to text messages if he’s not interested and why would he try to make me jealous? I have to work with him &. Stopped talking to him because he wasn’t taking things seriously
I have none for “expert”
I am in a Long distance relationship with who is definitely my soulmate or dont know how explain but we are very similar and beyond happy when we talk.
We have beautiful plans but he has ADHD and he's still in a toxic relationship of 27 years, he wants to move from where he is and be together with me since there's nothing for him where he is, not affection, no peace, no space.
The problem is despite he's still with someone non compatible, that person is a narcissist forcing him to stay in the relationship.
He is very fearful to leave even knowing that it's the best choice to his happiness. His ADHD makes him have a big insecurity, being wishy washy, example: one day we plan beautiful projects like being together, next day his fears and stress to face change and big steps (divorce, moving to my city far away) fearing to do all that, even wanting to do that, stops him from doing that and he starts acting like he doesn't want to know or do anything about me, blocking me, telling me sad things, saying there's no future for us, etc.
He realizes then that he has feelings for me and his life is not good where he is, and as he said: he's lonely and doesn't have affection.
He talks to me again, all is well until he "crash" again.
How can I make him understand that he must leave a relationship with a narcissist, that he has to stop blocking me when his ADHD overwhelms him to take next steps and how can I make him contact me again?
He blocked me today clear blue sky after we shared a nice afternoon yesterday when I showed him my art. We were making nice plans. Few hours later for NO reason he blocked me.
I Won't dump him if you suggest it. I love him. There's must be a way to improve a long distance relationship with an ADHD married man fearful, who aknowledge that he is in an unhealthy marriage talken for granted and I'm the opposite to that.
Thanks in advance for the advice.
Oh, the mysterious thing called love. Nobody can harness it.
Whats the best way to get the attractive girls i encounter on a daily to let me masterbate and facefuck my way to éjaculating in their open jaw?
My mommy said babies are made when two adults who love each other did something. How come people who fuck with no love get babies. That's my question about love. Answer that.
for my question i would need a private message conversation, you can reply if you like and i'll send you a DM would be very helpfull since i'm bad at judging this stuff.
I think the Magic 8 Ball has always given me good advice. So...
How will you answer live?
No thanks I'm good.
What makes you a dating coach?
hm wow i’ll checj that out for sure
Anyone that has to call themselves an 'expert' is suspect. ;)
Why did i cringe so hard
Sending dick pics to women to work because they are more open to sex these days. Plus it skips straight to the point so men can skip the fake courtship, expensive dinners, and movies dates and go this route for a root. This saves time and women these days expect it.
It's mostly introverted white knights who are against this because they are small or scared of rejection. Instead of treating this like a game that women like to play, they will pretend it's rude and usually get really jealous about it
So all men should send dick pics within a few minutes because that's the first step of courtship now.
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Why are so many marriages ending in divorce nowadays?
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