What burning questions about love, dating and relationships do you have for Dating Expert, Coach T Anthony? LIVE EVENT see details below?
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I have a usual question but I might add detail as the convo goes. ( if I’m lucky that is :)
Ok here goes: my songs teacher is telling my son n sometimes other kids ( 3-6 yr olds) making a drama mockery out of it :
Where I’m one of the kids running after him and holding themselves kissing and self holding ( maybe just telling my son only I can’t know). It represents me apparently ‘chasing’ him.
This is after 3 months of not talking. So he wrote on Monday ‘just know I care for your son you may reach out to me.” I said sorry as we had a tiff about a trivial issue that soon turned into ‘him saying I’m suggesting dating him.”
Now after 3 months of no contact and being formal, I find it resurfaced again.
Oh by the way is important to note my ex boyfriend a journalist leaked some topless pics and one in a rip racing bust enhancing cheetah dress. I had once included that guy on a Christmas card sent to only my sons class parents, families and his teacher.
One day I saw his teacher look at me in wide eyed glee. As he checks mails early morning I don’t.
I might a few minutes later but we re all in a rush to get ready for the day. I’m in a race to the finish line.
my ex boyfriend hurt me by pranking me on April fools day he's been begging but i just wanna forget about it and move but i can't cause i still love him
Do leagues exist? How do you tell what league you're in if they do? I get rejected by every woman i ask out. Not one, not a few, every single woman. That's not to say i never get hit on by women. But they're women i'm not even remotely attracted to.
I can't pretend to be attracted to someone i find repulsive. Sorry.
1.) How to express attraction to white men?
I completely clump into a ball if a white man tries to talk to me, or I see a handsome guy. The first fear I feel is my race will instantly turn him off. People dont grasp that black women have been considered the ugliest race of women, being referred to as apes and coons since we were brought over way when. We look so different from the perfect white woman icon, that I have a hard time believing a white guy would consider me over their pretty white women.
It always gets the best of me, and I can't open up enough to flirt or show interest.
White guys have expressed a similar fear, that we may not like them due to black men being bigger and flashier.. so me not being open enough, probably makes an interested white guy, think Im not 😒
I feel really pretty, but never pretty enough for them. My personality is docile mostly, but I do have that black girl flare and fiestiness too. So Im thinking he is going to think Im ghetto and be embarassed.
Its really hard. No one seems to get what it feels like to have many bad stereotypes hovering around you, being insecure about your racial features, and loving the exact opposite of what you're supposed to.
What can I do?
My mother said that if you are in love, you will just know. I think I am but i dont think i would THINK im in love, if i were in love. How do I know? Sometimes I feel like im really cold and incapable of love and when my relationships end, its usually because I scare myself thinking of a future with that guy and I dont want him in my future si I end up breaking up with the dudes and sometimes they ARE in love with me. In my last relationshio I stayed with him because I wanted to love him but in the end I couldnt. Is something wrong with me? Or have I just not found the right one or what?
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I might be too late, but here goes nothing.
I don't have a problem dating, but rather I have the opposite problem: I can't make it last. And I know why.
I have had committed relationships with six people, all of them mentally unwell. All of the people I fall for are as well, and this weird 'type' of mine is affecting me in a bad way, constantly.
How do I break out of my type, and start dating people who would be good for me instead?
How much does money matter in a relationship?
Yeah, Anthony! I wanna know why I need a dating expert to help me run my failing relationship? It's gonna fail regardless unless you do a miracle
When a girl that you used to be close with who was hugging you and you her, chasing you and asking for going with you for a walks, who you start ignoring and becoming distant starts flirting and chasing your best friend after some time infront of you... Does it mean that she is trying to make you jealous or she just doesn't care about you and likes that boy and you are trying to make everything about you?
Are there any benefits to dating a single mother?
How to convince your finance/husband to not financially help his family and also not act like a husband for his mother?
I make sacrifices for us and I don't want to be in doubt every time that he meets his family about what they are going to ask this time and will he act on our best interest or theirs.
Do you consider that learning to love is important to find a partner?
how to get better at approaching
How does one convince a woman that she does not actually know everything that can possibly be known about everything?
How does one convince a woman that gaslighting is not to be done to everyone in her life?
Why does old flame still light me on fire?
I am happily married, but when I hear his voice, it makes me weak
How do I fuck a crush without getting attached too her? A few months ago she was open & kinda suggested we keep our companionship more than friends. I kinda lost touch with her within the last week. I would like want too move on.
It's more for future reference now.
If you notice a girl noticing you, but you noticed her first, is her notice just incidental or is she trying to convey something super subtle?
Follow up question: if she notices you but doesn't do anything, is she not interested or trying to not come off as interested for fear of looking desperate?
Second follow up question: if she doesn't want to appear desperate and ignores you hoping that you'll get the hint to make a move, what sorts of cosmic signs should a guy be looking for?
You're like those gurus who feel a need to help others to help themselves.
the girl I had a crush on in the past never responded back that she likes me but one day suddenly she bought her friend along and stood in front of me nervously. she wanted to talk to me about something but I was in a hurry and ignored her. any guesses what she might have wanted to say to me?
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This is so exciting! I've never watched a GAG interview or a live event that happened on here! While I know you're going to get a lot of questions regarding dating in general, I had a few questions about relationships I wanted to hear your perspective on. Feel free to pick any number of them that's interesting for you to answer! If there is a question here that someone already asked, feel free to skip it if it's going to be answered anyways:
1) In terms of compatibility, what information should you know from your partner or the person you're dating to determine if you can have a happy long-term relationship/marriage with them or not?
2) Do you believe a lack of education has anything to do with marriage percentages dropping in the USA over the past 15 years?
3) If you set your expectations for a partner too high and can't find anyone after a good period of time, should you still keep your expectations high to avoid complications in the relationship you want to pursue or should you lower them to have more options for a potential date available to you?
4) Is it possible to live a life without a relationship; without becoming an emotionally bitter person from a lack of personal affection/love to give and receive from a special someone you romantically want to be with?
5) When it comes to meeting someone online who lives nearby for a potential date, would it be better to get to know them through conversations by text messaging and video/voice chat first before the first date happens in person or would it be better to simply meet and learn about them in person first?
6) What do you believe the main reason is for all the people that cheat in relationships? Does it have to do with a lack of compatibility with their partner or commitment in general?
Thank you for your time reading this! I look forward to the event coming up and seeing which questions you'll answers for the community around here :)
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Who came up with the idea to pair completely oppositely designed minds so they are close, intimate, have to communicate and work through stresses of life together.. for 30-50 years? Were they nuts or is it part of a grander plan? Like... why would nature evolve to do that when it seems counter intuitive?
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