Are you currently seeking a boyfriend/girlfriend? Why or Why not?

Are you currently seeking a boyfriend/girlfriend? Why or Why not?
Are you currently seeking a boyfriend/girlfriend? Why or Why not?
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  • Nope. I gave up on that for now.

    No disrespect to you decent men out there, but dating is a headache and I got sick of the games, lying, being ghosted, being rejected/friendzoned, and this hookup culture where most guys think I'm suppose to sleep with them after one date.

    So I'll stay single until the right guy comes along. It's less drama and I'm happier that way.

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  • It's not as easy as you think, it's dependent on your time, life circumstance and other factors. But who doesn't want to find a real, good, and kind hearted soulmate?

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    • I don't think anyone is saying it's easy.

    • It isn't, good loyal men/girls are very rare nowadays, But still there is good people out there but you need to be selective and never meet someone at a stripper club or in a gambling casino.

    • Or at a bar.

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  • I am seeking love, yes, but it’s hard. I’m a perfectionist. There’s been way too much criteria for many girls to meet for me to be complacent in a relationship. Some have come close, but have typically rejected me. Other girls have shown interest, but I’d grow bored of them quickly due to dissatisfaction

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  • NO. She's been gone for over two year's and every time I think I feel lonely.
    All's I have to do is spend a liitle time in the front yard. Doesn't take a minute and inevitably run into my harbors lovely better half.
    So no I don't think l will ever have a girl friend again !

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  • Yeah I am, and he should better hurry up to find me😌😌

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  • No, I found the man of my dreams.

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  • No. I’ve got one.

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  • No, I already have The One (and she knows it).

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  • I prefer to just chance upon relationships. I'd hope someone would want to be with me because he liked me rather than just to fill a goal of getting a partner.

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    • So he can't like you if he is in pursuit of finding a girlfriend? Somehow that it's not real? He just wants you for arm candy? LOL

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    • Okay. Will have to agree to disagree on this one.

    • I found my boyfriend while we were both searching. Feelings develop in the same way whether you're searching or not. You might not have feelings at first, but they come in the first 5 dates, and that's when you decide whether or not you want to continue dating. One date doesn't mean you're suddenly in a relationship with someone you've only just started to consider romantically.

      I searched because I wanted to, and so did my boyfriend. Not because we were expected to be in a relationship, we just wanted to. Both of us would've been just fine if we only found a new friend and never decided to become anything more.

      I can understand why you think the way you do though, as that is some people's goal. Most people though are just looking for companionship, whether that develops into a relationship or not.

  • I'm in a relationship , but I wasn't looking for one when we met.

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  • No I'm not, for the simple reason I'm very happily married.

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  • Nah... I'm not sure I'm ready to give someone my that kind of time and attention. Although I'm open to it if I happen upon someone who feels more important than anything else to me because then I wouldn't be feeling like I don't have time for myself. If that happens, spending time with that person would be what I'll truly want to do you see... Haven't found that kind of person yet so I'm just keeping my time to myself. 🙂

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  • No, not even looking. Just trying to live life. If it so happens I find a girl to date, then it happened, probably won't happen. I don't set myself out there that much. I haven't really talked or met up with anyone new lately.

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  • Yes and no. Dating is hard enough. I don’t know honestly if I’m ready for a relationship after a not so good 20 year marriage. When though they’re both loses, a divorce may have been easier because you see the end coming, but death is a change that only takes a seconds and your world is upside down.

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  • Actively staying away. It’s just the safest and best thing to do for me right now

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  • No, not at the moment. Enjoy my freedom right now. That being said, if the right one suddently appeared it might change 😊

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    • Good attitude to have. I always say I am happily single but flexible for the right person to come along.

  • No, like I just don't feel like putting in the effort. The majority of the time that girl you think is cute is either 1) not into you, 2) in a relationship, or 3) a total scumbag who isn't worth dating.

    & if I don't personally benefit from a relationship then there's really no point in being in one. I'm not going out of my way to impress a girl when the only thing she can offer me is her affection and meanwhile the expectations she places on me are through the roof.

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  • Yes, absolutely. As much as I do, and have, enjoyed being single, I'm at a point in my life that I would miss it only in passing, and then remember that I have one special lady to give all of my attention to.

    Plus, I want to make me some babies, God dammit! Preferably, the kind that pop out already dressed as ninjas and operators, so I can send them on secret missions.

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  • I haven't given up, but for all intents and purposes i have. I've just chosen to accept reality singlehood is probably all i'm ever going to be. I'm just choosing not to beat a dead horse anymore.

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  • I'm all about the idea but I tend too attract chicks that are not so good for me or are interested but not 100% into me.

    So where would be a good start too search I realize know work isn't the best option.

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  • Yes and i have someone in mind. Just gonna try to go with the flow for once and hope things go smooth

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  • I'm in a relationship therefore I'm obviously not looking xD but I also never actively looked for in the first place.

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  • No, I should focus on my studies instead. Most relationships last a week in my school.

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  • I don't date currently because I prefer to have friends with benefits for the time being. When I feel like I need to settle my life for a family, I will find someone that I shall remain loyal to for the rest of my life.

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  • I'm not seeking because I'm focusing on my GPA and self image, but I'm definitely open to the oppurtinuty if the person in question seems worth my time

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  • That ship sailed a long time ago, I'm destined to die alone

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  • Coz, I am not ready for another serious relationship. I am planning ot move to Canada soon. Once I will settle, I will think about getting back into relationship

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  • Yes. I would just like to have a life partner that is willing to grow with me into something more in the future. It's a good feeling to k ow you have somone like that with you.

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  • Yup because I want to get close to someone and have that experience of being able to both be yourselves completely and know you're appreciated.

    Sounds kinda low self-esteem ish, but it's not.

    I guess I just get lonely

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  • I still feel too young. I went out on a date for the first time a few months ago, and I was really uncomfortable.

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  • I don't actively search so said no, but over all I am open to someone to walk to me even that most that do it are really a-h

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  • I am single right now, but I am not really looking for a relationship right now. I am working on making myself into a better person for now, trying to get some things done that I want to get done before I settle down with somebody.

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  • I want to have a boyfriend but at the same time I’m scared of my parents finding out (I don’t have a really good relationship with my parents) and since my sister is in my same high school she’d mention it which really scares me

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  • I want a boyfriend for the companionship and intimacy, but there’s no one I actually want to date.

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  • I’m not seeking anyone just focused on myself. Would I like to date sure but its whatever.

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  • Yes because I’ve hit the point in my life I’m tired of not having someone from the opposite gender love me besides my sister and mother it’s time I actually “hunt” the girls

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  • No but if someone sought me (which is never gonna happen if we're honest) I would very seriously consider them

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  • No, Im Not. Im focusing on studies and probably will add a second bachelors, so I am not actively looking.

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  • Yes, I'm looking for someone. I feel like all other areas in my life are stable now and want to meet a companion. Easier said than done, though.

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  • No i am in college and i am trying to immigrate after 3 4 years to Canada. Maybe after i get there (hopefully) i might seek getting a girlfriend.

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  • Yes because itd be nice to have someone to spend time with

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  • yeah, I want a boyfriend. just gotta make my crush pop the question

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  • Yes I've been trying to get myself dating again after an abusive relationship a few years ago

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  • No, why would i want the stress? ain't nothing good come out of it

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  • yes I keep waiting for a man that will love me altho I know it will never happen to me :(

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  • No I am looking since I got a partner and working together.

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  • Not seeking, but i may not miss a good one.😂
    I have some improvements to include in myself and should learn self love!.

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  • A certain guy. He's all I've ever wanted. He takes up space in my mind all day. Everyday.

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  • No, I am at a different place in life. But I sure love having fun and having friends

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  • Specifically at this moment in time, not really. I do hope to go out with somebody in the long run though.

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  • I'm neither looking, nor not looking. I'm just going with the flow. If I find her the great, otherwise no problem.

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  • I can't because I can still barely walk, let alone go to social events. I'm in no physical or mental place to go somewhere social.

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  • Yes, for companionship, conversation, comfort, care,
    & sex...

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  • I have tried to find a soulmate for year's, but things don't go well as I hoped. I've given up hope on love and romance.

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