Most Helpful Guys
I asked a similar question yesterday and would like your perspective. Personally I feel like kissing is ok on the first date if you feel a connection. It begins the physical connection as an expression of how we feel emotionally and will only increase as the relationship deepens.
However my question to you is how would you feel if after 3 good dates the guy had not kissed you yet? What if he told you that he was attracted to you and felt a sexual connection but wanted to delay physical touch until the feelings deepened? Would you think something was wrong or would you react positively?
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I don't think it's too soon. But personally, I'd want to wait until I built up more attraction to their personality. The kissing would only be fueled by impulsive sexual desire if it's on the first date (and there's nothing wrong with that). But I think it would feel better with someone that I truly love inside and out. If you feel like you are based on the first date then, by all means, go ahead. There shouldn't be a limit on it unless you have a specific goal in mind that would get disrupted if the kiss were to take place. 👌
For the update: Time will tell.
Most Helpful Girls
I don't think It's a rule that applies to every case. Sometimes you kiss on the first date other times you don't or shouldn't. If the moment's right and if it feels like it then you have a green light to do so. On whether or not he's ghoasting you, you gotta wait and see within three days if three days have gone by and he hasn't even said "Hey" then he's not worth your time. Everyone got things going on but no one is THAT busy. Best of luck!