- I confront them
- I give them space
- I don't do anything
- How could anyone lose interest in me?
Most Helpful Girls
I'd have a heart-to-heart talk with them first. Because they may have a problem that I'm unaware of which has nothing to do with us or me. People sometimes unintentionally distance themselves if they have problems in their life , or if they have depression. Which makes it appear they're losing interest in you. So I wouldn't automatically assume I was the problem.
I wouldn't walk away from someone I cared about based on an assumption. So I'd definitely confront them first.
You have to tell them what you're feeling. The only time I don't confront someone is if we aren't serious. But if I have real feelings for you I'll tell you what's up.
Most Helpful Guys
It depends. If there’s a possibility it has nothing to do with me, they just have other stuff going on, I’ll give them space. However, if the behavior continues, then I bring it up. I don’t like the word confront in this situation because it suggests making a conflict out of it. I’ll simply say “I feel ____.” And before I say anything else, I give them a chance to comment on how I’m saying I feel.
There is losing interest and just needing some time to themselves. You must know the difference first before trying to confront them or giving them space. Giving someone space though would be my first choice.