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AGREED!! Omg, I think we can all agree that although no one says it's necessarily bad to let them. It's the trust issue of why do they need to!
You don't automatically give someone trust. Trust has to be earned and built up. Partners have to prove they are trustworthy and little things like access to their phone is a quick and easy way to get the job done. Once that trust is built up then the need to check phones is gone. If you have to lock away your phone, I have to ask, what are you hiding?
Hiding something?She could go through every single data on my phone and wouldn't find anything.I'd just feel like something was wrong if she needed to look through my phone in order to be able to trust me or find validation in our relationship.
@Marethyu that is exactly what she is going through. It's almost as though him asking or him looking is a validation as opposed to trust
@Marethyu There's a huge difference between a hovering girlfriend who constantly checks your phone because she's paranoid and simply letting her use your phone
The question specifically pointed out "go through".. Not "would yoh let her use it".She has my password and all and she can use it whenever she needs to.I still want her to ask me though and I don't want to find her, stalking my chat histories or anything like that.
@Marethyu I agree