Most Helpful Girls
No offense to the OP, but this entire point is so lame and people misunderstand it so badly and its mostly guys who are mad girls won't date them that keep using this stupid "muh nice guy" excuse to hate on women. And i'll prove how stupid this point is with 3 word;
ALL 3 of these words are basically slang for "nice guys" and girls like guys who are chill, alright and cool and chill, cool, alright guys are usually not boring. This whole "muh nice guy" shit is guys who are boring and lame trying to fall back on their lack or risk taking, their lack of self-esteem, their lack of ambition for being a nice guy. There's a lot of homeless people who are nice, why don't you hang out with them? Hey, would you date an overweight girl who desperately wants a man? No? Guess what dummy, YOU'RE NOT A NICE GUY THEN! BOOM, be quiet with your "buy girls only like bad boys who are fun and interesting" because only insecure girls who come from bad families fall for serial killers and gangsters same as chubby chaser men. Those are a minority of girls. Generally women love nice guys / chill guys who don't start drama or aren't emotional nor complain like we do.
Sick of this subject man, its so lame bro. People DON'T see nice guys as boring, you're just making it seem like that because the people who go on about how nice guys get the short end of the stick are boring people.
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You can't assume "nice guys" are all the same (in physicality, height etc.). A nice guy is an individual with a (subjective) pleasant personality. That's it. They can be attractive or unattractive. This is the issue that I think many women have.
Many of us want nice guys. We want them to be attractive too. There is nothing wrong with that. It's similar to how men want an attractive woman with a personality that he likes.
Most Helpful Guys
LOL... Well, the way I understand it. There seems to have two definition of nice guys.
#1: The nice guy that is a lame, doesn't care to do anything daring which often times is fun, doesn't have a back bone and is fervent in PC lest he offends which translates to boring personality.
#2: This nice guy treats people with respect, likes to socialize and is endearing to lots of people because he has charisma and has a little bit of date devil in Him which translates to fun and isn't scared to be himself.
Let's face it the 1st guy I described is a boring type of dude.
Because a good chunk of niceguys lack a spine to have any edges in their personality. They jsut try hard to appeas to everyone rather than having principles and standing their ground. Their are wusses.
If you have principles, stand your gorund and stick up to yourself, you WILL have instances where you aren't nice. Sometimes you need tob e confrontational and disagreeable or else you are just a doormat.