How much should you wait before having sex with your boyfriend?
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Third date is good
There really isn't a timeframe per se, but I ALWAYS wait until we're exclusive (he's only dating me and no one else) and we're serious- which is usually around 3-6+ months.
That way you know he's interested in you and not just after your body or sex. If he's genuinely interested in you, he'll wait a few months. But if he starts guilt tripping you or saying you don't like him because you won't sleep with him right away? He just wants sex.
Back when I was a teen the rule of thumb was 2-3 months.
Since becoming an adult I've figured out that if it feels right, then it feels right. Whether that's the first, second, third or hundred date.
Also generally speaking it takes a while before sex becomes great with a new partner. I'd hope for attraction and you both being really into it as a start. He probably will not know exactly how to make you squeal and squirm just the right way on day one.
No set time, but you should each be able to talk about what you enjoy and do not enjoy sexually. You should explain what tends to get YOU off.
You should discuss safe sex and contraception.
Get STD tests done.
You're probably not prepared to have sex until you feel confident that the other person cares for you, and is trustworthy.
That's really hard to answer, don't put an amount of time on something so important.
Go with your heart and follow that little voice inside that is mostly right.
Give it six months. That's what I did when I dated. And then gauge the relationship and decide whether or not you want to actually share your body with that person. 🖤
When ever you want. You're an adult you have free will. It'll feel right at somepoint so go for it. but communicate with partner. If it dosent feel right, thats ok, justvtell your partner that.
You should wait to have sex when you fine someone you actually love that loves you in return and that won't happen till you get married to that person.
Good oral to start before you do the real deal
couple of hours
First date is noice
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