I'm wondering if this is a red flag for anyone? I don't know if I should see this as a bad thing?
Any advice would be appreciated :-)
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Even though you describe them as bad guys and abusive... they both probably felt really attracted to you.
I would like to think guys would only take their time to commit if they weren't sure about the girl from the start... so they need time to figure it out.
Maybe you give off good vibes and appeared to be a very attractive candidate to them... hence why their eagerness to commit more quickly.
Having said that it can also be a sign of lack confidence on the mans part and being slightly possessive and needy. Usually a guy that is more in control won't feel the need to rush things and pace himself better. And yeah a week seems too soon. It's a little worrying on his part.
So it's a mix of both in the end... your attractiveness and his confidence and self esteem.
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Hunger, desperation, zero other options, very blue balls.