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Im tryna build a future with husband/kids. I dont have time to wait for an indecisive dude
More people need to think like this.
@Uru_DS thank you :)
Lmao sounds like me
Funny your name is jose like my “whole new world” from February. Even crazier we used to karaoke whole new world
@DizzyDesii it was probably my cousin. Being Mexican and all I got 4 cousins named jose lol
Omg he's half mex half puerto or italian. One of it
😂 not true. Sometimes u just get tired of the bs. doesn't mean i faked it. Means i got fed up and then found your replacement
I couldn't disagree more. That is a serious claim based on what? How can you call the people who move on uncommitted? Okay maybe some people are but this certainly isn't the way to define that. I was committed 100% to my last relationship but things just didn't work out. I loved her and now I don't, just cause I've stopped thinking about her and it doesn't affect me at all doesn't show anything more than the strong will to let go and live in the present.
Im talking about people who dated for years, talked about how much they “loved” the person and then after the break up, they hop into bed with someone a day later. I knew a guy who broke up with his girlfriend, said he still loved her and wanted to get back together with her, but than gets with another girl that same time, like what?And you said that you “no longer loved your partner” after you broke up, which is fine. Its just hypocritical of someone to act like they were really invested, when in reality they weren’t.
Two things - One, the guy you're talking about is most probably your ex and you're exaggerating. If not he always had a thing for the girl he saw next day and clearly didn't love his girlfriend. That's a typical example of a douche and that's rare. Second, you twisted my words. I said I loved her and now I don't, it wasn't a button I pressed. It took time and it took some advice too. But I didn't let her affect me at all. And as far as I'm concerned I don't sleep with someone within the first week of meeting them, call that rare or stupid or sensible but it's how I do stuff.
And I think the point I'm trying to make is that the time frame set by the society as 'really quickly' is bogus and it depends on each person on how they move on. You can't categorise people like me into a group and say our actions show that we were uncommitted.The break up was a process and there's no harm or foul in indulging with other people once you know you won't go back to that person, whom you may still love.
It was my friend, not my ex. And your literally agreeing with me, if the person jumps from one person to the other than that means (at least towards the end of the relationship) they didn’t love them. I just think people should wait a bit (at least a month or so) to move on
you're not a victim, you use people. One of my dealbreaker questions are how long it took you to get over your ex and you say 1day lol fail
Thats fkd up man sorry to hear thar
@DizzyDesii fucking what
Right on 🙌
these types of people pollute the dating pool, best to next them as they'll cheat
err youve just revealed yourself to be a psychopath
if speaking the ugly truth w/o filter makes me a psychopath, so be it
Not all rebounds are bad 🤷♀️
if you can't handle being alone thats a bad quality in a person
It works quite well
@DizzyDesii yes it does!
Why are you letting his actions trouble you even after such a long time? See this is what I don't get, you won't get a chance to be this young tomorrow, you'll be a day older. Do you really wanna waste the time you have now because of the past and let it spoil what lies ahead? Think about it, or better yet do something about it and start losing weight as it clearly concerns you.
Could that response be any more vague?
@Uru_DS I don’t understand
Well I was expecting like a sentence, I don't know what I can make of 'huh'
@Uru_DS just make fun of me I’m an idiot
As much fun as that would be to others I don't enjoy doing that. Whatever it is you're going through or have done, you have got to move on. And trust me when I say this, there are people who've probably faced more trouble than you and have moved on.
@Uru_DS I know I’m so privileged and sheltered