Coach, you are at it again with your statistics!I vote for the last option because a lot of factors are involved in my decision. Here are just 2 of them.If it is a first date, I don't want that person to know where I live nor do I want to go to his place since I am not familiar enough with his personality. You know that people seldom show their true face on a first date. Impression is all what it is about.I may not have good chemistry with that person if it is a work colleague for example and when drunk, people tend to lose their inhibitions and if you are in a public place, you are more likely to get help than if you are locked away in his place.So, while convenience is king, safety prevails over convenience for me.
This isn't a trick question where safety isn't assumed. I am giving people the benefit of the doubt that they already know they feel safe and to just vote. It also assumes you do have chemistry with the guy and again it's not a "one off" situation. So thanks for the comment.
If they just met, no. Unless they are not considering safety or casual sex.
Let's assume both parties feel safe and are looking for casual sex. Is him living close by make it easier for her to say yes then having to maybe cab it or uber it to his place in the suburbs.
If they are both wanting casual sex, I think that him living very close would make it easier for the woman to say "yes."
Have an opinion?
Yes. I agree with you.
I am going to assume, by the way you worded the question that both parties are in agreement for casual sex. So yes, it would be convenient. It wouldn't leave much time between the couple to loose the "heat" and there is no trouble of finding a taxi etc
Thank you for getting it right!
Where i live people are pretty spread out and getting around at night is impossible due to zero public transport. Its perfectly ok to crash at someone elses place. Sex is just a bonus, if he's willing even better.
So what about the question that was asked?
I'd happily go for one last drink or have him at mine if I was closer. I don't know what a block is but I guess its within walking distance
So what if he lived 45 minutes away.. would you just say NO and meet up some other time?
45 mins too far for me at night but if I liked him I'd hope to see him again
Thank you for the answers... very helpful! Much appreciated!
The closer the better. Anything over 20 min is too far for a last drink for a woman.
Good points! Thanks for the comment!
I gained 70 lbs from drinking and going out in a little under a year and it’s because of how my coworkers always went drinking and our office we work in is downtown and near all the bars
So if the guy you were on a date with lived across the street from the bar or venue and he said 'Let's get a night cap" at my place... and assuming you like the guy... would it be easier to say YES because he lived across the street?
A lot of the time convenience is key
I totally agree but wanted to get people's opinions on the matter!
I’d rather have a guy that lived closer
Absolutely. I am not taking an Uber somewhere in the burbs for one last drink. nObody got time for dat.
Thanks for the comment!
Depends on when you met the guy.Just meeting and going back is typically how all murder documentaries start
Duh! Thanks for the comment LOL.
Bollocks. I've brought many a guy back for one last drink and I rarely kill any of them.
"More likely"? No. Where does she live? How well do they know each other? Why the "one LAST drink?" Not enough info to determine.
Yes, living walking distance to an entertainment district is going to rapidly increase the opportunities for that type of thing.
Definitely, a quick walk for one last drink and whatever is always preferable to the woman. Plus she still knows where she is if things go crazy...
Yes I think they would for sure have one last drink!
l would think so and if she come back home with me l think we both would end up in bed making love for the rest of the night but in the real world l don't do one night stands l only date long term
If I'm looking for some casual sex then definitely yes
I would assume so.
That's it? No reason why?
Something can happen in a mile, a block, a yard, or a foot doesn't matter.
And I carry so it wouldn't be a good idea.
Sooooooooooooooooooooooooo sorry I asked LOL. Geez
Your fine dear
Sorry I don't always word things the best 😀 was nothing behind that
I actually find you interesting sir.
I just needed an answer to the question not alternatives. I understand something can happen in a mile, a block, a yard or foot. That doesn't HELP ME. I made it clear in the details and it's getting frustrating that nobody appears to be reading it. That's all!
I'm sorry sir. No disrespect I understand why you would be irritated
No regardless of distance I would notYour pool is awesome. Can you see the skylight building? I love Dallas
Thank you! Yes the view is amazing.
Wow I need to come visit lol.But not after the club. Teasing you very, very nice
Ha Ha Ha Dallas is the shit! You might not want to go home!
I'm half Texan I've been visiting forever. It's very fun come to Lake of the Ozarks someday I can show you something new I'm sure
Alright personal tour guides😀 yayyy
Tonight a last drink tomorrow a rape accusations. Thanks but no thanks
There is always masturbation my man!
And no pro life/pro choice problems.
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