Stupid facebook chat won't let you see who is online before you log in so I'm afraid that the girl I'm dating will be online. The problem is I would love to chat with her, but I don't want to appear needy. But at the same time I don't want to log in and ignore her because that looks bad. What do I do?
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log on if she's there say hi then do whatever it is you would do if she wasn't there saying hi acknowledges that you know she's on and you are willing to chat if SHE wants that way you don't seem needy (I doubt she would think you were any way) and your not ignoring her (which your right that would be bad) AND it puts the ball in her court if she says hi back or something you know she would like to chat and if she don't then you know that right now she doesn't no one is hurt no bad impressions are given...so just log on.0