Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so that's not a good factor to go by, at least to me. I assume if someone attractive doesn't get hit on, that means s/he intimidates others or people assume they're already taken (mostly this!) Or they might have a personality that turns people away
Um. No. Really attractive people rarely get hit on. Weird. I know. But I have a friend (girl) who is gorgeous. And she rarely gets hit on. A few of my guy friends like her but never tried because they all think she’s out of their league.
It basically just means that they're afraid to ask the girl out for a date because she's so beautiful looking
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Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. What is beautiful to some will not be beautiful to others.
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There are many other factors to consider. If you're infatuated with that person then of course you will see them as significantly more attractive than everyone else. The same applies if you have a certain "fetish" or type of person you're in to... and if that person ticks those boxes for you then of course you will find them significantly more attractive than everyone else. If you're taking a proper rating... and let's say that girl was an 8... but wherever she goes the area is always saturated by 7s, 8s and 9s... then by virue of simple supply and demand she would most likely will not get hit on that much. There are more options available for everyone. There is only so much you can get attracted to someone just on looks... after awhile the personality will be the deciding factor... Also it's to do with how much of your conscious thought is preoccupied with that person... for example you could see a very good looking girl... but she may just appear as a blip on your radar and you don't give it much thought... hence by virtue that you didn't think of her as much she will not seem like a big deal... on the contrary you could see an average girl and have her pre-occupy your mind a lot and hence that will skew your perception of how attractive she is... There are many many factors... I don't know why people tend to always resort to because she's "intimidating" as an excuse... at any given moment... most people have better things to do with their lives than hit on other people... Attraction is a very subjective topic...
1. Just because you don’t see them get hit on doesn’t mean it never happens.2. Some people are so attractive that most people are afraid of approaching them3. Following point 2. It depends on what social circles/locations they travel in. In one place they might get hit on by 50 people. In another place zero
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Very much the opposite. Really it boils down to what others say - people being intimidated by your looks, too insecure to approach, as well as the general culture of people in said area. Especially as a guy, it's EXTREMELY rare that a chick approaches me, but I sure do get a lot of looks thrown my way, ya know?
My 2 cents on this is when you are super atractive it can intimidate guys. This intimidation can keep guys from asking women out. Also guys assume that a superstar give women is already in a relationship or has guys asking them out all the time.
Not necessarily for you do not know whether this person gets hit on or not ! Even a husband or wife can get hit on and no one but the one hitting on them and the attractive spouse will know this ! For the spouse can not be around their spouse all the time to see how others feel about the other ones looks ! Thanks
The easiest women to approach are the very attractive... because they are seldom ever approached. Somewhere in men's heads they talk themselves out of approaching these women for whatever reason or reasons they concocted in their heads. So many attractive women are out there who haven't dated in years...
Rarely hit on super attractive women - just assume they're unattainable.Have done it a few times, but in each case, they were still emotionally attached to some other guy (at least that was their story), so it was a non-starter.
Guys are easily intimidated.At bars i usually have to go up to them!.I have been told time after time i am intimidating and they were scared to talk to me!. I've even had them find out who i am to find me online and message me!.Honestly its annoying but it makes sense. can't help it🤷♀️💁♀️
I’m unsure. Besides, I’m my girlfriend’s first boyfriend because after she turned 20, she really wanted a relationship. I took her out for her birthday and we kissed for the first time. She gave me her first kiss and when we got to her grandma’s in her room. I jumped on top of her and we kept kissing. We were fully clothed too.
No it doesn't mean that. Most likely means she is intimadating. ♥️🥰
beauty is in the eye of the beholder. But just because they are not getting hit on, does not mean that men/women do not find them attractive either.
their personality might be sucky... just saying, actually I'm the one this question is about.
It might mean they intimidate others. Or others think they have someone already.
I’m going to say yes to this.It’s not to say they are not physically attractive. I’ve know lots of physically attractive people who had a crappy personality.The personality would drive people away like a plague.It could also be how they carry themselves. Constantly looking at the ground, hunched over, and shuffling while they walk. It screams low confidence, hate my life, don’t talk to me. Regardless, of their actual personality, that is what others are seeing, so they don’t approach.On the flip side: If they look like they are pissed at the world, no one is going to approach. Someone who looks physically imposing, or looks like they enjoy ripping off heads, isn’t going to be hit on. No one really enjoys that much of a challenge.If no one is approaching, there is something the person is doing that is off putting.
You dont know the personality of a random stranger in the Street or a bar.Pretty sure she means a woman you find attractive but she never gets hit on by strange men that has no idea about her personality
Everyone has individual choices about what "attractive" is. One can be physically attractive. Sight only. One can have an attractive personality. You need to get to know someone personally to evaluate this and it takes time. If most people don't know a person and rely only on sight, they only get half of the picture. I'd venture to say most people don't know enough about a person to gauge their holistic attractiveness. Some very pretty people have awful personalities and some plain folks are wonderful human beings... Unless you know both sides the scales aren't balanced.
This post is obviously talking about physically attractive people
@DWD94 My point is, solely how someone looks isn't enough to gauge true attractiveness. A pretty face isn't enough. If someone opens their mouth and they're an idiot, that might be why their pretty face isn't doing them much good. On the other hand, if the person is average and they don't atttact a lot of foot traffic because of their looks and people don't take the time to look past their looks, this is another reason they don't rate as attractive, though they might be terrific.
Maybe. Can´t rule that out... it can be a lot of different things as well, but sure. I would love for that to happen :)
Maybe, probably yes, but, they may not have much contact with others so they don't get atention towards them
Looks are subjectiveSo what might be attractive to someone might not be attractive to someone else or their type..
I have a very specific type. But they don't like me back. Then again the type of person that i like don't usually don't date outside of there culture/ race. Just my luck
Nope, it just means that people think that they are so good looking that they must be with someone
Even attractive people can be unpopular. Sometimes they never get hit on because their attractiveness is intimidating.
No, they could come off as unapproachable. Or maybe they are a major homebody.
No a lot of people don’t get approached for many reasons
They may not put them selfs out there or careful of what circles there are in.
It's a question of time, she's bound to find someone whom she likes.
It seems to be the most likely case but not always.
Maybe they have a shitty personality or are super awkward and shy.
Where I'm from that normally means that they're mentally screwed up. So everyone avoids them!!
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Not necessarily, some people are just more approachable than others.
If you have universally attractive features. E. g symmetrical facial features clear skin a good smile you look healthy/not overweight. You will get approached by the opposite sex its bound to happen. If you're not getting approached or flirted with by the opposite sex you probably aren't as attractive as you think. So in this case I would say although the individual may find this attractive person they like good looking. They are not as attractive as they think, as the general public would prove how attractive they are by approaching them to flirt or engage etc
Could just come off unapproachable
Nope! That means they are super attractive.
Could be intimidating to most others.
No. It doesn't necessarily mean that.
Maybe they have a bad attitude or a bad personality so it puts people off. Looks can't be the only thing good about them.
No, it means they are intimidating.
my friend is intimidatingly gorgeous and very rich skinny tall not a lot of guys are up to her standards and they know that so they seem a little afraid and don't bother she also always has an entourage or a guy friend people assume might be her boyfriend
If a girl is super attractive I’ll say hello to her (if I’m single and right now I’m not) and gauge how she talks. I’ll confess they are more intimidating but they key is too be easy going. You might be surprised how many attractive people might like you back. I’ve scored two solid 9s almost 10s in my life because I was in the right state of mind.
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