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NO, its more like immaturity. its like having a lolly in each hand and licking both. Finish one then start the next. If you are unhappy with your partner , tell them. Then move on.. Personally I don't think this type of person can love. Its just sex at the end of the day ….
I think the same way
Nice to hear that from someone so young...
Not as much as I associate it with a lack of self control. Same as cheating on a diet. You probably don't like the diet if you cheat, but even if you do like the food you can eat a lot, if you have no self control you'll still go to McDonald's every other week.
Lack of love.. not really. That does not seem like the right wording. The problem mainly is just that people who cheat do not have respect for their partner, are incredibly selfish and wants to have their bread buttered on both sides.
it's just a poor excuse to cheat... you could have lots of love from your so but if you have the opportunity, some people will take it anyway..
My 2 cents, there are so many reasons some stupid some just are seriously jerks. No reason is a good one. As you say there is a decision made or in many cases many decisions made. My goal as stated before is to never put myself in a position where my integrity can be questioned on this matter. I will say the only way I would ever cheat is for my wife to give me her permission and she would need to know the person that is the only time I would even consider it.
Lack of love and lack of respect, yes. Also selfishness and being a complete moron and a coward.
If he lets me know, it's not cheating. Cheating behind my back, therefore, is a sign he doesn't love me. Me letting him cheat? Mutual respect and love all the way.
Letting him cheat won't earn his respect. A guy who respects you won't cheat on you, whether you let him or not.A guy who's going to cheat will cheat, whether he is "allowed" to or not.
@AperolSpritz Sleeping with other women isn't cheating. Cheating is doing so behind my back. Cheating is doing it without a good reason.
Whichever way you look at it, it's still the same.
@AperolSpritz Oh. Is allowing him to have sex with me cheating? No. Is allowing him to have sex with someone else in lieu of me, due to my inability to satisfy him cheating? Maybe. Maybe not.Cheating is about selfishness. If I selfishly place my jealousy over his sexual need, I am not fulfilling my end of the unspoken bargain to help ensure his happiness. If he decides his needs are more important than mine, he is out. But if I place my needs over his, how am I any better of a person?
The thing is, you are capable of satisfying him. If you don't think you're good in bed, that's easily fixed. If it's a case of you not being particularly interested in sex, that's a different story all together, and that's where the grey area does come in.
@AperolSpritz True, in most cases. I won't deny that many guys would use that as an excuse. But a man who is polyamorous may need more than just me, and I'm OK with that.
no. More so I see it as an expression of passion. but that's me.
It's not just lack of love it's lack of a few things that come before love being even a possibility and plenty of times it's simply malicious intent.
more like a lack of maturity but definitely overflowing with stupidity
Entertainment , or likes the feeling of being attractive , attention can be addictive
I hate cheating if you feel the need to cheat you shouldn't be with someone. I think they do it because they can and never put that person's feelings first
I associate it with lack of satisfaction in the relationship which may include a lack of love
I’ve come to the conclusion that two people who are the complete opposite can’t be together
Yes, when you like flower you pluck it. When you love it, you water it daily.
That could be a part of it
Lack of love and standards.
No I don't. Lack of mutual respect, yes. Love, no
But why do it if you have a partner who respects you?
Happens for one basic reason; lack of effective communication.
I think i do
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