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I would not want to be with somebody my important support system dislikeCould your support system be jealous or really not in your corner when it comes to matters of the heart? Maybe they aren't doing so well in that area and can't stand seeing YOU do so well!
My support system is not like that at all. We all support each other and care about each other's needs. Some of them are dating, married, have kids or working on their career. We are always honest with each other. The type of people you're describing are not the type of people I have as friends or in my support system. Sadly my father is one of them. He's now racist and was never like that before he joined that Black Hebrew Israelite nonsense. Only those with common sense and unbias' are in my circle.
Whenever my close friends ask of my opinion on who their dating. I always ask them questions first. Do they share the same values? Do they want marriage? What are the intentions for them dating my friends? Do they have a job? What are their aspirations for the future? Also. If I intuitively sense something is wrong and God tells me about it, I would warn my friends. My main concern is their safety and wellbeing. I always tell my friends, I don't care how handsome they are. You better check them first. And I know they would do the same for me. They have plenty of times defending me from bad people. We all tend to think alike. That's why they're my amigos! I love them as my own blood.
Cool beans YO!
OUCH. Well at least you figured it out! Kuddos to you!
Yeah, I say he was my 4th Step relapse. I was doing my Sex Invemtory, feeling like shit for the things I've done and felt like I deserved a guy to treat me like shit until death does us part. And from the start I said either we would kill each or one end up and the other in jail... But I did fall for him because for once I didn't feel like had to measure up he was the one that had to measure up if I wanted him to. All I wanted was for him to stop accusing me of cheating...
Understandable for sure!
Would you even be open minded or self aware of what they could be telling you?
I would keep an open mind, but at the same time, I would be cautious as I know sometimes people will say bad things about another only because of some desire to get back at them for some petty reason (jealousy, etc.)
My relationships do require their ok.Whose ok?
I mistyped "DO NOT require their ok". I ssume you meant friends and family. Why would i give a damn what anyone else thinks.
I usually don't listen to anyone and do what I want but I'm not sure, if that's a good thing
So everyone's opinion matters more then your own?
No. But I respect the opinion of some very close people in my life. If they didn't like him and were open about it, it would probably be because they're worried about my safety or wellbeing.
Well as long as you can tell the difference then cool!