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I'd just keep it to myself especially if I was sure they didn't feel the same way
What would you do
Keep it to myself
I agree that's the worst thing to me to be in love with someone that doesn't love you back
Thank for the MHO
Hide my feelings. They probably already know you are crushing on them tho.
This is a hypothetical, but within that hypo, they don’t. 100% sure.
Id tell them. What do you have to lose? I told my best friend in college and we were still cool afterwards.
Thanks for the mho!
I would take my time to change my mind and stay friend with him.
Get them drunk
I didn't say buy him booze😂😂😎
I get it 😊
See we good
We good 😂
It happened - I just put a stone on it and moved on.It wasn't easy, but it was the best thing to do.
@Jean-Marie_CélineNever heard put a stone on it.I like it😀
@Wowgirl30q It's an Italian expression!
A milestone or in true gladiator ship? :) Italian men are hot 🥵
Even if I was sure that he didn't feel the same way, I'd have to tell him at least once. After that, I'd never being it up again.
I would bottle it up and talk to other women as not to ruin the relationship.
this happened to me a long time ago. I eventually told her about it after we had a few drinks together and she was surprising cool about it. We made out that night but didn't go all the way. She wanted to talk to her best friend (who happened to be one of my ex girlfriends from high school) first to make sure it wouldn't piss her off. We eventually had sex a few times and had a fun friends with benefits relationship. I was so nervous that she was going to shoot me down but it ended up working out :)
we're still friends too. the sexual stuff has been long gone but we're definitely still cool
Once, when I knew with almost complete certainty that she was not interested, I went and told her about it anyway. I'm not sure exactly why I did that, I think it had something to do with having lost a LOT of people who were close to me right before, and I felt a need to be honest, even if, especially since, there was really no reason to open up about it
Did you lose her as a friend?
Oh no. We still talk off and on like we always did before.
if it's going to ruin the friendship try to get over it. there are a lot of people in this world and if you play the long game you might just get a shot at dating your friend in the future. more than likely you'll get over that person before that happens, but we make our own fate sometimes.
I wouldn't even open that can of worms. Id hide it completely there's nothing worse than having this image in your head that’s leading you in a wrong direction. This crushing usually makes us hopeful. Like it might be possible. Yet when and if you bring it up. Its a total shock to the person and things just got awkward since he doesn’t feel the same wayMight even taint the relationship
Very good point
I think id still explore it. Actually i didBut ambiguously. So not too clear. Just kinda skirting the line a bit to see how re reactsYou never really know huh
And then if the answer is clear. Then yes id hide it completely and what not
Once again, a really good idea
MmmGood luck cutie 😘
Strictly hypothetical lol
I bet LolDoesn’t matter. I keep my overly subjective opinions aside for the ones that matter 😛
You said taint @TripleAce
Been there before- Nothing. You keep your damn mouth shut and try to get over them, if need be, spacing yourself from them.Eventually, reality sets in because you know the feeling isn't mutual and it's not worth embarassing yourself, so I tried to stay friends with him... or backed off completely.
I'd probably ask them what they thought would be the way they'd approach a relationship. I'm usually pretty chill with most of my friends so it's the kind of thing where I can feel comfortable talking to them about my feelings for them without making it awkward generally speaking. I had a girl I liked and I basically told her I thought she was marriage material but we didn't go anywhere from there we decided not to pursue any kind of relationship and we're still friends.
I would let them know me feelings, I am very forth comingIf you take this route, it is like a gamble, it could alter your friendship forever, or it could lead to a mutual affirmation of romance and attraction
A risky gamble
If this good friend is single, why not? A good friend would make a good partner
Life is short, sometimes we need to shoot from the hip and ask questions later <3
Yes. Put it in such a way that you'll stay friends if they say no. That your friendship is not on the line.I did that with a good friend. She said No and we are still good friends. Afterwards I saw it was a mistake. She is pretty messed up and is attracted to toxic people. I found someone much better for me.
Put the crush on a back burner and stay friends until you had some kind of sign. If no sign appears, just go on about your friendship as usual. Better a good friend than nothing at all.
Well, I would find some way to lose the crush honestly.. I mean at first I would hang around them as much as possible, and then when I got tired of unrequited feelins.. I would just back off altogether, and give them some space.. Til I get over them..
Mitchell lol! Learn 2 get over it and ignore it. At this point I know he doesn't wanna be with me, And the friend thing seems over so screw it. I gotta learn to deal with it and out my big girl panties on and be ok
I would make sure they weren’t feeling the same way, and if I found them to not in fact be feeling the same way, I’d retreat/retract all further attempts or endeavors to get with or crush on them.
I’d respect his feelings and try to keep it all to myself, even though it would hurt. Hopefully the feelings would go away.
Well, a very good friend would know a lot of my good and bad sides. Maybe try and hint a thing or two.If the reaction if awkward or very cold, than leave it at that. You are friends and most likely will never be more than that.You can always just tell him/her, but you risk your relationship.
That's real easy i wouldn't be crushing on them. This is one of the problems with me. For me to have feelings for another woman i have to believe she does for me.Unless i do i feel nothing towards her.
Is that wierd? I mean it feels normal to me. But i think it's why i don't feel connection to a lot of women because to me she has to feel it first. Or at least at the same time.
I would try and get in their pants and fuck themI hate to be so blunt. But hey it's Fathers Day. I get a free pass today. So no filters on opinions today.
Crushing on someone is about more than just fucking them
No its not. Fuck 1st then relationship. Got to try it before you buy it.
Disagree totally, but ok
Get it over with. be straight forward how you feel otherwise will it eat you up from the inside.If it isn't mutual, shit happens. if it doesn't work for to be just friends say it and move on with life without that person since it's unhealthy relationship to stay as it was.A real friend will understand that, a selfish person won't.
I had that happen. I told her, she said she had feelings for me, but nowhere close to the feeling I had for her. She said she loved me more than a best friend but not in a romantic way, like she can rely on me and would even be open to a casual sexual relationship but wouldn't want anything serious. That was years ago, I had to force myself to stop loving her and it still hurts a little when she mentions different guys in passing conversations.
I had that happen to me the crush disappeared after she moved awayplus she was on the wild side and i couldn't tame her down but i reallyhad my heart crushed cause at the time i saw love within her it was theyear 1996 , her name was Richelle. . My first ex-girlfriend , Crystal justbroke up with me. Yes just too much went on in a little amount of time.
Well I just fantasize about him lool and try to move on and find another damn fine guy 😂
Good idea 😂
😂 😂 😂 There's plenty to try with
Never tell my true feelings for the sake of friendship. Or Just walk away because of the pain I feel for never sharing.
Hard to walk away
Ain't nothing you could do except just move on. All you would do by telling them is probably mess up your friendship. Considering that they "most likely" don't feel the same about you
I'd do nothing about it. I won't ruin a friendship I care about if there's absolutely nothing to gain from telling him how I feel.
I had this happen two years ago. I tried to move on and quash the feeling but after trying for a week or so I couldn't. So I asked her and it turned out I was correct. It definitely helped me move on.
If your really good friends, do like I did... Talk about it! That's what friends are for. Might be awkward to start with but it helps to either make something happen or diffuse the feeling.
I'd try to distance myself from them and find another person. Although id want to be sure they did not feel the same way first
Probably get my sister to try to figure out if they were interested or open as well. If not, I would never say anything
I would enjoy the crush and not pursue further. I wouldn't want to mess up the friendship.
I was in that situation with my friend in the speed cubing and he just accepted the fact that I wasn’t gonna breakup with my boyfriend no matter what so he’s been working on moving on
Move on. I dont think I'd be bold enough to ask if they feel the same way.
Wait. Or, at least give them a clue how you feel about them.
I really wouldn't know why I would I want to crush anybody. I don't have enemies
No. Like have a crush on somebody.
I wouldn't say anything and wait for the feelings to pass. 🤐🤫
I'd still tell her that I love her!! She has to know that I have some feelings for her and who knows she might then start developing feelings towards me!!!
Find someone else. Duh.Attraction and desire are not negotiable.
I would just ask to clarify how they felt. If they didn't feel the same way at least now I know its not a possibility I can move on.
Been there, I just made my feelings known and then dropped it and moved on
I’d probably try to find out if they definitely didn’t like me then move on
I'd do nothing if I were sure they didn't feel the same.
It all comes down to do they feel the same way or not, if not, better forget it as as soon as possible
Shove the feelings to the back of my head and bide my time.
Not much you can do. Just move on 😟
I would withdraw from the friend knowing they didn't reciprocate and I wouldn't be able to unfeel
Ignore the feeling, like I do with every crush
Why do you ignore every crush?
Because I have no intention either way of getting in a relationship, so I just ignore the feeling.
For starters, I really wanna focus on uni, as I'm going to do two separate degrees next year (Law and economics). Next to that, I don't even know whether I'd date non-Jewish girls. If I don't, I might as well not get in a relationship as there aren't any here. Furthermore, I like being solo
Makes sense. Have you ever heard of Richard Posner?
Absolutely no idea who that is
An American appellate judge. Invented the school of legal thought known as Law and Economics.
Aha, Ill look him up. I just do the combination because I already started doing economics and is going very well, and a second degree doesn't cost me a penny more (except for books) as I dont have to pay tuition.
I wouldn't say nothing
If this weren’t a hypo, that’s probably what I’d do
She would not be my girl anymore
You would dump her as a friend?
I would keep her as a friend, but limit my time with her
Just be a good friend.
Do what I do best get over that crush.
Find someone else to crush on.
probably just stop talking to them
It's happened before. I wouldn't do anything. 😂
Stop eing their friend
I'd likely stop being friends with her
Personally, I would just move on.
I distance myself.
Leave it alone.
I'd walk away
I would ignore it.
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