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Call, the next morning, at a reasonable time, when you know she will be awake, and maybe getting ready to leave for work! She might not pick up, but leave a nice message, about what a great time you had, and how you have been thinking about her, and her smile, her hair, perfume (something specific, from the date!) and that you want to see her again, soon!!Later, about lunch time, call her on her cell, and maybe she answers, maybe not? Leave a message, if she doesn't pick up, but have a GREAT DATE idea, planned, beforehand! Tell her about it, and ask her to call back, when she can. See what happens!It isn't always bad that she doesn't call back. Some like being "wanted!!" And maybe call about 9:30, like maybe when she is going to bed. Maybe she picks up, because she wants to talk, and likes you, and wants to sleep, with happy thoughts, after talking. . . Sometimes, it goes that way, but not often!!
This is something that's more reliant on your schedules. If they're interested in another date, it likely meant your date went pretty well so it's crucial to keep momentum going.You don't need to decide something immediately, but 7-11 days is good and definitely not over two weeks unless both your schedules are super loaded. Even then, someone that's interested in seeing you again will find time.And if you have a second date lined up, it's better to not message heavily, but it is important to flirt a little and keep some contact there.
What about asking her 3 days after the first date to schedule for next week?
I meant the 7-11 days to meet, but actually planning should be done within 2-3 days and can be earlier if you got an idea.
When tou know you want a second you should ask them for a second date even if it's the night of the first date. I was asked out for a second date on many first dates when we both were really hitting it off. Don't follow stupid Dumbass Rules that were made up by people who just like to make excuses. You feel it you ask them out. You wait too long you're not interested enough. For me if a guy can't decide within three days he wants to see me again, I'm obviously nit that important and will decline any invitation after three days.
Thank you for the MHO.
After you've spoken with her again and you want to see her again! Why should there be a timeframe to tell someone you want to see them again?After the date, just let her know you had a good time. If the feeling is mutual, ask her would she like another date... if so, when would be a good day for you both.Viola- that's it, lol.
Thanks , asked because I don’t wanna seem desperate
No problem! Maybe it's just me, but I rather a guy tell me right away he's interested in a follow up date or not, instead of leaving me wondering, lol
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Considering the age group visible here it should be frequent. What I have observed is that women needs someone to stick and one they can trust. If you have got these two covered, she will choose to love you else you know, someone else might take away your crush
Right away. Don't let her think you're not interested. Feel her out, hint at seeing her again and see how she reacts.
There's no rule. Well, men and women have rules and games, yes. But a healthy and functional relationship should always be natural with both of you making your own things based on who you are.Wanna call? Call her.
Don't think there is prescribed rule. Its what works for you.With my current SO, our second date was the next day (unplanned, we were chatting, she had finished work early so we met up for dinner)
Not long. It's fine to send a text the next day "I had a great time last night. Are you free on Saturday?"
I don’t see the point in waiting myself. If you want to see them again ask them if they’re available at a time you’re free
The sooner the better. Don´t risk the misunderstanding you´re not interested because you waited too long.
depending on how you feel about her and how the first date went, ASAP or later
If you know that she likes you then please do it after a week or two.. because if you wait longer than that then she may lose interest in you, if only she REALLY likes you
After a few days but enough time to give her notice to take her out on the weekend beforehand
After you feel like it. No really, do it the next day if both want it.
If I enjoy myself I ask her by the end of the date.
Start planning within a week that’s what my boyfriend did with me ☺️
You will wait three days with the no contact rule and then see if you can plan a 2nd date.
How well has the three day rule worked for you? I never hear about this rule working
If she is interested in you then she will contact you first. And in my experience I never waited for more than a few hours. Then I planned the next date. If she didn't message me then I dumped her number and e mail. I have better things to do than texting back and forth with some dumb girl that needs her narcissistic supply.
I would say one day or two
Depending on how the first date went and I would say at least a week
Next week or biweekly
Be random with the shit.
37 years, not a moment sooner.
Ask them when they are free next.
Within a week, talk to her about it and plan it
1-2 days after the first date.
Anytime you want, there's no real rule for this.
a week or two
7 Days Later
The upcoming weekend
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