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👹Am I scaring my boyfriend off👹?

I'm the one who is always initiating. For examples I initiate our dates, our texts, our phone calls. Some of you might say give him a chance to initiate, but I learned that if I wait on him to initiate conversations (oh we text once a day usually at night, which we both agree on and perfer) it is too late to talk and im in bed falling asleep. I always plan our dates because I ask him his free time and my and put it together. If I do not initiate he will not ask for a date until 2 or 3 weeks have gone without seeing eachother. I'm not going to settle with seeing my boyfriend twice a month. I would like to see him at least once a week. I already told him how often I want to see him. But now im fed up and tired of initiation and I was thinking about slowing down my pace and giving him the chance to initiate. Actions speak louder than words. I know I deserve better. Am I over bearing or is he slacking off? Any advice would be appreciated =)
👹Am I scaring my boyfriend off👹?
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