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Should the guy I’m talking to know that I was raped?

Not dating this guy, but talking. He realized that i’m super insecure which I think is partly/mostly due to the fact that I was raped a few years back. He asked if I was bullied or made fun of and that i dont have anything to be insecure about.. I just said i dont know why I am the way that I am. (insecure/self conscious)

Should he know about my past? I never told anyone about what happened to me.. Its just been sitting in my head for so long it kind of doesn't even feel real or valid anymore. And if i mention it I feel like he’d think im making it up or something (even though he's one of the nicest guys ever)
Should the guy I’m talking to know that I was raped?
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