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You got to do your homework and get out there to socialize.Being an introvert is not easy but you already made the first step by asking here on GAG.You have to become active and there is no bypassing meeting people if you want to succeed. Try joining a club with people that have the same interests as you do. You could also have a hobby and meet other guys and girls that share this kind of hobby.That is only the easy part of trying to find a girl that you can have a long term relationship.First you need to have confidence in yourself, in your appearance, in your body language and your facial expressions. You can exercise all those in front of a mirror while analyzing all those individual communication types to make them blend into one harmonious appearance.I will not hide the fact that you will probably fail in the beginning. However, at your age, you have the definite advantage that girls are not that much into what they are when their sexual hormones are peaking and all that counts is to get a hunk of a guy for intimate relations.While it is still important to be intimate, you can set other priorities like common interests, walks, holidays and other activities that middle aged couples do.Don't be disappointed if it does not work in the beginning. It seldom does.But that is the spirit of a winner to get up after each fall and to try over and over again until you are successful. But you have to do your share of the work and not to give up after the 5th. fall.Good luck!
My brother is 40. He’s never been married. He has no children. He’s an extrovert and has dated a number of women over the years. He’s been dating the same girl for several years now. None of that shit has anything to do with anything. Just start talking to women and ask a few out. If you find someone you like and they like you then things will develop naturally if you let it.
You have to approach every woman that you are attracted to and be prepared for a lot of rejections. There is no easy way around it.
I'm just like you; so the chance of either one of us getting into a relationship with a woman I'd rate to be about 50/50.
Then do something about it and do rest on your laurels. If you stay put on your chair, nothing will happen. Get active, as I said to the asker and do something about your situation.Only by being active can you change something about your situation.
Don't think you can nowadays long term relationships are dead dating is pretty much dead as well.
Go out and meet more women.
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