I’ve been dating a guy (three years younger than myself) for the past almost 2 years. We moved in together about a year ago after I bought my first house. I purchased the home myself and take on all bills aside from utilities as my responsibility and don’t expect him to help with those. When he moved in we agreed to split the utilities 50/50 as well as chores 50/50. After a few months he quit his job and I have been paying for everything while he sits around playing video games all day, is there any way I can try to get him to help out again? I’ve tried everything from nagging him about chores and bills to talking to his friends and parents for help. I feel like I live with a toddler and it has destroyed our relationship. I could use any ideas on things that may help or opinions on the matter.