Ok so, basically my boyfriend is deployed right now and a few days ago he wanted me to send “pictures” to which I refused, and he got mad and started to tell me I don’t put effort and that I don’t care about his needs. It’s not true because I am always understanding and never bother him or get mad. Basically it was our first “argument” and I just didn’t blame him or anything I just kept trying to make him understand me and tried to stop the argument. he kept on saying a lot of things like that and I just decided to leave after the last text was sent (he basically said something along the lines of talk to me when you are ready to do what I asked ) now I really don’t know what to do? he is my first boyfriend ever we have been together for 6 months, but I didn’t like that reaction Should I reach out or let him apologize?