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I don't think so. As far as hookups go, I don't think we'd be on the same page at all regarding sex, as I view sex as a personal and special thing and am not into casual sex at all. These differences could lead to incompatibility, plus, I wouldn't want to feel like just another girl he slept with. As far as cheating goes, I would have a hard time developing trust for someone who has cheated in the past, and I believe trust is the foundation of a relationship. If they are a repeat offender and have done it more than once, it would be a hard NO because people like that rarely change and are very likely to do it again.
Absoloutley not. I believe a person can only change so much and I will always think if they can do it to them, they will do it to me. I made a mistake once before thinking I was different and he was different with me and I felt special (he didn't cheat or anything along those lines) his behaviour towards his ex his always promised he would never do that to me as he had never met anyone like me before. But nope eventually, after a long road, he did to me exactly what he did to his ex and I never thought he would.
No, I would not be with such a woman.She is a cheater by nature.If she was of reproductive age, I would need DNA tests on every child to check that they were mine.It would also be only a matter of time until she brought home a disease.My first girlfriend cheated on me (with a previous boyfriend) the whole year that we were together.Every subsequent female with whom I was supposed to be exclusive cheated on me.Married women have hit on me during most of my adult life.There are currently two married women who want to sample my sperm.Being unfaithful seems to be part of female nature.
nope , don't want no ho that is lo
Hookups, I’m kind of living in a glass house there, lmao.Cheating on a fiancé is more alarming. I’d need to know the story and circumstances behind it. I’m not of the “once a cheater, always a cheater” mindset, I think that’s just more of a catchy slogan people latch onto, and people’s fear of being cheated on themselves fuels it. Like does that apply to everything? You do something once, you can count on them to do it again? Yeesh, let’s hope not, or we’re all doomed, for something else if it’s not cheating. I think people can do dumb things for any number of reasons, and you shouldn’t just be branded for life over it in all cases. Maybe they had an excellent relationship and cheated for more self-indulgent reasons, in which case I’d probably avoid someone like that. But maybe someone was in a TERRIBLE relationship, just happened to be engaged, maybe they had self-esteem issues, maybe the fiancé was abusive towards them, I mean, there could be a million things going on there, not that cheating is a great choice even in that scenario, but it’s not a clear-cut case of selfishness where the other person was nothing but good to them and they just decided they wanted some extra lovin’ on the side. I mean, look at all the fucked up relationships out there, that we don’t even know the HALF OF. And then lastly, what about age? I know all kinds of dopes who had some dog-and-pony show “engagement” when they were with their first serious bf/gf at 18 or 19, and you knew it’d likely fizzle out at some point. Maybe someone cheated then, at 19. So how about me now, at 40... if I were single and I could date a 38 year old from that aforementioned situation, who cheated literally half her life ago, am I seriously supposed to hold that against her? That’s pretty ridiculous in my estimation. If it was three years ago? More questionable, but also requires additional info. Obviously it’s not optimal to have cheating on your record, but in many cases I think it’s foolish to basically give someone a lifetime ban for a previous indiscretion.
A track record of cheating would be a red flag. Past hookups could shape my perceptions if the head count is absurdly high to the point of being "overly loose". But generally speaking I can compartmentalise and understand past hookup history. I'm not sure I could separate a track record of cheating from any subsequent relationship we might share. Although I guess some women who have cheated may be less likely to do so again (having seen and felt the harsh reality of what comes afterwards) than women who never cheated before and are fantasising about "the grass being greener", so to speak. So I guess a lot of it is contextual, if a girl has genuine remorse about having cheated in the past, then it will likely come across in her character, and her way of navigating the relationship. If it's just in her nature to whore around behind partner's back, then if anything she'd likely try to hide her track record from the guy she's with. I'd prefer the devil I know than the devil I don't.
No to the latter. When it comes to the former I may not just because of a gut feeling but I’m definitely more open to it than with the first.Even when it comes to cheating there are certain conditions where I’d be understanding though like, if they were being physically abused and the relationship was basically dead already. In some circumstances there’s like sham marriages where it’s by no means surprising when people go to someone else for a semblance of intimacy, even if I might agree they ought to have broken up first.
Lol, no. That is one of the most common things that disqualifies someone for me. Way too many people are into hook ups and I just wouldn't want someone like that. They couldn't value a partner or have as good of a connection as someone that wouldn't do that. I lose respect for people once I know they are that kind of person.
Seems odd that some people are okay if they did hook ups but not cheating. they don't realize that the hook up kind of people are the cheaters when in a relationship. They don't see sex as something special and don't value it the same.I guess those people will learn the hard way after they get an SO that did hook ups and then get cheated on and wonder why the promiscuous person behaved promiscuously. lol
In my opinion, your past doesn't define you but your actions towards past mistakes. People have baggage and mostly wronged ex partners before maturity taught them how to grow up. And once they meet the one, they use these acquired knowledge to avoid messing up again.Who never screwed up in life?
they can have diseases
No way, are you crazy and i even prefer her to be a virgin...I'm a tempered man and i hope she treats me well cause if cheating appears, don't what i'll do but she won't feel safe anymore no matter where she goes...I won't stop until i hurt her worst than she hurt me 😒
I am open to open relationships where my partner has a high libido and seeks to satisfy their needs with other sources, so long as they remain emotionally faithful. People can miss me with that behind the back shit, though. Tell me who you are fucking, and I’m cool.
Yeah that's a tough question because If I live with the moto no regrets then how can I judge her by her past sluttiness but If I am too invested in our love and she screws around in doing to be really burned and may be driven to do something about it and probably live to regret it and not get the girl anyway
Maybe. People make mistakes. I don't care about someone's sexual history but cheating is a red flag. That being said, if it was a one off thing and they are remorseful, I'm not going to judge.
Lots of hookups? Yes. Cheated on a fiancé? I’d give them a chance but watch for red flags. I’d have to be able to trust them before I decided on a relationship with them or not.
Most likely not, but I will never let shut the door on someone growing and changing. I would just seem to have very good explanations for what happened in the past, and a lot of concrete evidence that they had changed
Hookups? Yeah. Cheated on their fiancé? Nope.I don’t usually ask about their pasts because I’m gonna find out their views / personality, etc. Those let’s me know of any future flags
No cheating is wrong it’s one of the only reasons I believe that is valid for divorce and someone who cheats on somebody who they committed to a relationship to his and somebody who should be in a relationship
I don't think I would even want to be friends with them.
Right... like she's going to volunteer that information. Lol
Assume she is a GAG member and posts freely about it.
Then she's soing it deliberately. No woman wants to appear that way.
Well... I see my full answer was an option provided in your poll. No. Are you crazy?
If they cheated before, they will again. I'd never date a cheater, ever. And someone who did a lot of hookups I wouldn't want to date either.
Would never date anyone who has ever cheated especially on their fiance
Definitely not, I want a woman who is clean and loyal.
I wouldn't date someone who has had casual, i. e. out of a relationship, sex... ever.
No, I wouldn't. Too many hookups, the cheating on the fiancé... what would stop her from treating me the same way? I don't know what such an individual would need but it's not more dating.
No, because I believe the house philosophy, that people don't change, they just become more of who they truly are. I've experienced it first hand. If they have cheated once, they would again
Well I did hook up with a girl who had a boyfriend I thought I loved her honestly it was a summer thing and she ended up hooking u with some other guy when I was out of state so if they will do it to someone they will do it to you too
If he cheated on his fiancé he would cheat on me so no.But hookups honestly I don't mind.
Hookups don't bother me, but I wouldn't date a cheater.
Date? Yes ( if i were single). For relationship though i'd have to be convinced they'd changed
I voted no, however I have. The key here is I did not marry said person (s). Past experience and observation tell me the risks are to high.
This is two separate questions to me. First one, yes. Second one, not a chance.
lot of hook ups - id consider it, but cheated on their fiance/e hell to the no
There's a pattern there that I'd rather not be a part of thank you very much.
Hell nah can't be trusted they gettin fucmKed and dumped
lmao i find it no surprise to see some would anyway. Tbh this question isn't really realistic because who would tell a date they were a slut and cheated 🙄
right. A person that cheats never tells the truth.
@Poormanscomedian the good thing is the truth always comes out because a leopard never changes it's spots.
yes of course conditions she has a billion dollar property
Hook ups? Maybe. Cheating on a fiance... doesn't sound good.
Hook-ups yes, cheated on tgeir fiance more than likely No.
what is the difference, if he has been with lots of women, he won't give that up. The thrill of chasing women
No that's a trashy human being, I would not give them a chance.
No, I don’t think so. Such a man does not align with my morals and values.
Definitely no & Definitely no
No. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
yep, that is right
I’ll say a woman who fuck a lot of men. Not if they cheated though
Hookups, yes. Cheating? No
Absolutely not. Sounds worse than suicide.
Hookups, yes. Cheated, no.
lot of hookups yes, ever cheated no
once a cheater always a cheater
Hookups yes I would still date you. Cheating NO.
If it was for sex. Yes
Hookups yesCheating no
Hookups, yeah. Cheated, maybe not.
For STD free sex maybe. Date NO!
Hell no! I won’t date an immoral man.
Not a chance. I want a real woman.
only if they look good but I wouldn't trust them
No, definetely not.
What anime is that I’m almost done with angle of death and will need a new one soon lol
@Stoner710 tenjho tenge
Cheated? Ewww nooo
No. Trust is hard to find
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