I've seen some really messed up stuff, and heard about how it's had an impact on people's lives, and had a lot of shit go down in my own, too, which makes me cautious around touchy subjects and very careful when it comes to sex. I also fear being falsely accused a lot as it could destroy my life, even if I were to win the case, my reputation would still be ruined. In my 4 sexual encounters, I was very passive, instead of taking the lead, I would just follow them, communicate, and don't do anything until consent was clearly given. Luckily, with the first girl (who I had 2 with), she recognized that and helped balance things out, but the other two didn't do that as much. My fear of being accused and of making them feel like they couldn't say no scares the shit out of me and makes it hard for me to be dominant in the bedroom. I've been working a lot to make myself better and have made tons of progress, but this is a big roadblock, how do I fix it?