When I go on a first date I look for a connection and if I don't feel a connection then I don't continue going on dates with that person. Apparently some people told me that's messed up because you can't expect to feel a connection right away and you have to keep going on dates with the person before feeling a connection since you barely know each other. But I feel if I am on a date and I don't feel anyway at all for him then that's bad sign for me. Or I get friend vibes or I just don't see myself dating them. Also if we get along really well and I just feel that spark then that's worth it to keep it going for me then to not feel anything special at all. What do you think?